hello friends
how can you know if the holy spirit is speaking to you and that you are not misled by what it is saying thinking it is the one when it might not be i mean sometimes whatever the thing is can still sound right but sounding right could sometimes also be a mislead because you would think its right but actually its your mind thinking that
I think that's an excellent question and I don't fault you cross-posting, trying to get it answered.
In simplest terms, keep seeking God until he makes it very clear to you what is Him and what is not.
The answer "keep reading the bible" is also true but only works as long as your question isn't "Is the bible truth?" or something similar.
Here's why I say that:
I was raised in a bible-teaching church, but there was a falseness in their teachings as well. Once this falsehood became evident, I had a dilemma...Specifically this: The same people who told me the lie also told me the bible was truth. So...I had to find out if they were lying to me about that too. And if my pastor could lie or simply be wrong...couldn't every other pastor lie or be wrong too? And I had to admit that I might even lie to myself or be misled also... so who could I ask? Who could I trust?
The answer was that I had to take my questions to God himself...and at that point I wasn't entirely sure that he really existed. But if I wanted to know, I had to point my question(s) to him/her/it and hope for the best. And I had the same question you face...How will I know it's God answering, and not just me deceiving myself? And that's why I said keep seeking until he makes the answers CLEAR to you.
God is alive. He is real. He hasn't lost his ability to speak. And he is waiting for you to bring your toughest questions to him. Keep asking until he answers. Don't let him off the hook. I would tell you to ask in the name of Jesus, but if you even question that, feel free to ask him about that too.
How will he answer? How will he make it known to you? Those are the things GOD gets to figure out... not you. You get to choose the questions, but he gets to choose how to answer. Don't try to mess with his side of the equation. Trust me, He's able to get it to you in a way that is clear to you and that you'll know it's God. Just keep seeking him until he does.
Love in Jesus,
Kelby