How to be Born Again

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FreeGrace2 said:
Very good. Yes, I am. Because the Bible makes faith conditional upon salvation..
So you believe that your "chosing" to believe
Everyone chooses to believe. Unless you are a robot or puppet. But that's a different thing.

and so being smarter than the average person who "choses" not to believe,
Oh, right. Let's bring in the IQ thing. Are you not aware that there are many very smart scientists who believe in a theory called evolution, which has never been proven, and has been refuted by facts? What do you do with those guys?

Your argument just fell apart.

But the principle of childhood is the same, you didn't ask you parents to be naturally born into this world, did you?
Of course I didn't. How ridiculous. Did you ask to be born again? Neither did I. So what? God offers salvation by grace (Titus 2:11) and He then does a whole lot MORE than just save us.

Again, your argument just fell apart.

Even you hold surely to a form of limited atonement, unless you are a universalist. I am quiet sure that you believe only believers will be saved?
That's what the Bible teaches clearly. And I am not a universalist and the Bible teaches that Christ died for everyone.

Or, if you want to twist "everyone" to only mean "the elect" how do you want to twist 1 Peter 3:18 - For Christ also suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God. He was put to death in the body but made alive in the Spirit.

Do you want to argue that ONLY "the elect" are 'unrighteous'?

And the point is? Misunderstanding? I am saying all along that regeneration equals salvation.
Well then, you're at least half way there to the truth.

Now, absorb Eph 2:8. Since we are saved by grace THROUGH FAITH, that proves that we are regenerated the SAME WAY, which is THROUGH FAITH.

So there you have it. Faith before regeneration.

Yes, but you think that the old man can produce saving faith and as a result of that he get regeneated.
Where did you get the silly notion that I think saving faith is something "produced". The Bible doesn't teach that. So why do YOU claim that?

Faith is simply trusting. When YOU trust something (like a bridge or chair), did you have to "produce" that trust? Or how did you come to trusting in it?

Jesus said that NO MAN CAN come to Him, unless the Father draws him there (John 6:44).
Calvinists have a very bad habit of ignoring then VERY NEXT VERSE. So let's look at it:

v.45 It is written in the Prophets: ‘They will all be taught by God. ’Everyone who has heard the Father and learned from him comes to me.

iow, those who paid attention by LISTENING and LEARNING will come to Jesus. Very simple. And free will all the way.

I will assume you've been through the educational system. Did everyone in every class pay full attention, or where there dreamers and goof offs in class? So, you see, there are those who CHOOSE to pay attention and those who CHOOSE not to.

Again, free will at work.

He also said that it is IMPOSSIBLE for man to save himself (Matt.19:26) and that believing in Him was a work of GOD (John 6:29)
Yes, no man is able to save himself. That is not the issue here at all. And you have completely misunderstood Jesus' answer to the Jews. They asked this in v.28 - Then they asked him, “What must we do to do the works God requires?”

Keep in mind that the Jews were very works oriented. They wrongly thought salvation was by works. So Jesus used a bit of tongue-in-cheek in His answer in v.29 - Jesus answered, “The work of God is this: to believe in the one he has sent.”

He answered them according to their own words.

And the Bible is very clear about works vs faith. They are DIFFERENT.

Rom 4:4,5 and Eph 2:8,9 prove that faith or believing is NOT A WORK.

So when you quote John 6:29 OUT OF CONTEXT, you are ignoring a lot of Scripture that refutes your argument.

not of a work of man or a work partly of man. Paul said in Eph.2:1,5 that the old man is dead in trespasses and sins, not sick, but dead.
Please don't take "dead" as meaning non-functional, a very common error among evangelicals.

Spiritual death means separation from God. It doesn't mean brain dead and unable to think.

All this fancy-sounding talk about prevenient grace or even worse ideas of God first regenerating people and then making them able to choose to "say yes or no" to believing are unscriptural philosophies, set up by men who want to superimpose their own twisted thinking unto what the Bible says.
Wow. All this comes from calvinism. Aren't you defending calvinism?

Actually Eph.2:5 confirms that sinners are DEAD in their trespasses and sins this UNABLE to contribute anything in the matter.
Your error is in thinking that somehow faith contributes to salvation. It doesn't. Where did you get that notion?

So, it is you who have it backwards, you believe that a dead person is not dead and is able to experience that which only living persons can do.
No, I understand what spiritual death means, unlike yourself.

You seem to be taking it to be physical death, or brain death. That's wrong.

Paul refutes your theory soundly in Rom 2:14,15

14 (Indeed, when Gentiles, who do not have the law, do by nature things required by the law, they are a law for themselves, even though they do not have the law.
15They show that the requirements of the law are written on their hearts, their consciences also bearing witness, and their thoughts sometimes accusing them and at other times even defending them.)

In the NT, the word Gentiles generally is used of unbelieving non Jews. And here Paul notes that even Gentiles have a conscience and can differentiate between right and wrong.

And that God WROTE the requirements of the law on their hearts.
 
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Cornelius is an example. Anyone who pays attention spiritually to the things of God has been regenerated since if they hadnt been its impossible for them to please God Rom 8:8
The problem is that the Bible indicate that Cornelius was NOT saved when Peter entered his home.

So he couldn't have been regenerated. Regeneration and salvation go together. Can't have one without the other. Eph 2:5 equates the 2.
 
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An unbeliever cannot please God because they are in the flesh.
Excuse me, but faith pleases God. And there are no verses that say that unbelievers can't believe.

In fact, the Bible is clear that rejecting the gospel is a choice. It's called "refused to believe", and found twice in Acts.

If unbelievers were UNABLE to believe, they simply CANNOT refuse to believe.

If someone ordered you to jump straight up 10 feet, without any assistance, could you really "refuse" to do it? No, of course not. That would be stupid.

You would be unable to do it, so refusing isn't even an option.

Yes, you could say you refuse to do it, but everyone would laugh at such a goofy claim. Of course you can't. No one can. So the issue of refusal is immaterial and nonsense.
 
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FreeGrace2 said:
You have missed my point completely. Believers who are out of fellowship because of grieving/quenching the Spirit CANNOT please God.

How can that not be? Please explain, if able.
You miss my point obviously. Man by nature is spiritually dead ! That cant be said of a believer !
Again, missing my point. If you understand the principle of fellowship, you will know HOW to be in fellowship.

So, if you do understand it, please let us know.
 

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Impossible according to this verse .

37¶In the last day, that great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried, saying, If any man thirst, let him come unto me, and drink.

38He that believeth on me, as the scripture hath said, out of his belly shall flow rivers of living water.

39(But this spake he of the Spirit, which they that believe on him should receive: for the Holy Ghost was not yet given; because that Jesus was not yet glorified.)
The whole point of the Cornelius account is to show Gentiles are now being regenerated ( receiving the Holy spirit ) The promise of the above verses.
These verses prove no one was being regenerated prior to Acts 2 . You literally have no verses for your position. Just a philosophy that you impose onto the text .
No its not impossible. Cornelius was born again ! Otherwise he would have been in the flesh and couldnt please God Rom 8:8
 

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So what. What's new . That's why in order to please him people have to believe what he says and do it ( Old testament) Read hebrews 11 ) Believe the Gospel ( New testament) 1 cor 2.21 .
21For after that in the wisdom of God the world by wisdom knew not God, it PLEASED God by the foolishness of preaching to save them that believe.
So what ? Then a person cant believe in Christ, or repent towards God unless they have been born again, thats what.
 

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The problem is that the Bible indicate that Cornelius was NOT saved when Peter entered his home.

So he couldn't have been regenerated. Regeneration and salvation go together. Can't have one without the other. Eph 2:5 equates the 2.
Yes Cornelius was saved by new birth because he worked righteousness and feared God Acts 10:34-35

34 Then Peter opened his mouth, and said, Of a truth I perceive that God is no respecter of persons:

35 But in every nation he that feareth him, and worketh righteousness, is accepted with him.

You telling me a person accepted with God is a lost person ? If so, you dont know the first thing about Salvation.
 

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FreeGrace2 said:
You have missed my point completely. Believers who are out of fellowship because of grieving/quenching the Spirit CANNOT please God.

How can that not be? Please explain, if able.

Again, missing my point. If you understand the principle of fellowship, you will know HOW to be in fellowship.

So, if you do understand it, please let us know.
You missing my point !
 

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Revelation 3:20 Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me.
 
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I do think people forget something

We can not earn salvation, But we can earn condemnation.

We are saved by grace, period. But we can reject grace.

It is not that we are saved BY faith, We are not. But that we are NOT saved by rejecting the grace gift.

He who believes is not condemned. But he who does not believe is condemned ALREADY.

It is rejection in unbelief that condemns a person.
 

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He who believes is not condemned. But he who does not believe is condemned ALREADY.

It is rejection in unbelief that condemns a person.
Yes. That is what the Bible says...

John
3:17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
3:19 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.
3:20 For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved.
3:21 But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.
 

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I do think people forget something

We can not earn salvation, But we can earn condemnation.

We are saved by grace, period. But we can reject grace.

It is not that we are saved BY faith, We are not. But that we are NOT saved by rejecting the grace gift.

He who believes is not condemned. But he who does not believe is condemned ALREADY.

It is rejection in unbelief that condemns a person.
You still see a built-in "ability" in natural man to be able to believe, only if he wants to? Sin is not so much deadly then, is it?
 

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No its not impossible. Cornelius was born again ! Otherwise he would have been in the flesh and couldnt please God Rom 8:8
Nonsense..he receives the Holy Spirit . We literally read he recieves the Holy Spirit . And your like " yeah he was already regenerated " So he was born again twice ??
 

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So what ? Then a person cant believe in Christ, or repent towards God unless they have been born again, thats what.
Garbage . It Just says they can't PLEASE God in the flesh . But it PLEASES God to save those that Beleive . Problem solved.
 

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Romans 10:9 “That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.” King James Version (KJV)

"If" implies a choice.
 

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I marvel at that some people can still fall into the trap of false teaching such as prevenient grace and other forms of conditionalism. The thinking that salvation hangs upon man's choice or is condition upon some would be "ability" to create saving "faith", whether unregenerate OR regenerate. When it's God's choice.

Hence an unregenerate man cannot believe, neither is he "graciously enabled" to "choose to believe or not to believe" and by positive choice making himself born again.

These following scriptures are very clear:

John 14:16 And I will pray the Father, and he shall give you another Comforter, that he may abide with you for ever; 17 Even the Spirit of truth; whom the world cannot receive, because it seeth him not, neither knoweth him: but ye know him; for he dwelleth with you, and shall be in you.

1Cor.12:3 Wherefore I give you to understand, that no man speaking by the Spirit of God calleth Jesus accursed: and that no man can say that Jesus is the Lord, but by the Holy Ghost.

1Cor.12:9 To another faith by the same Spirit; to another the gifts of healing by the same Spirit;

1Cor.12:11 But all these worketh that one and the selfsame Spirit, dividing to every man severally as he will.

Gal. 5:22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,

1Cor.12:2 Now we have received, not the spirit of the world, but the spirit which is of God; that we might know the things that are freely given to us of God. 13 Which things also we speak, not in the words which man's wisdom teacheth, but which the Holy Ghost teacheth; comparing spiritual things with spiritual.14 But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned.

1Cor.1:21 For after that in the wisdom of God the world by wisdom knew not God, it pleased God by the foolishness of preaching to save them that believe.

All these above scriptures are crystal clear that only regenerate man can have this. Unregenerate man simply can not have this. It will be argued that faith is a gift of the Spirit, yet it is a gift that ALL believers have. And this gift is manifested instantly at regeneration. Unregenerate men can not have this.

Conclusion:

Unregenerate man can not have saving faith, it is foolishness to him.
Unregenerate man can not chose to have saving faith.
Unregenerate man can not believe on the Lord Jesus Christ.
Unregenerate man can not have the Holy Spirit.
Unregenerate man can not truly say that Jesus is Lord.
Unregenerate man can not have any gift of the Spirit.
Unregenerate man can not have the same characteristics as regenerate man.
There are no "say a sinners prayer" formulas in the Bible.

Just because there are invitations in the Bible of coming unto the Lord, it does not mean that natural men have the ability to do so. It would be implied that in order to do so they had to be regenerate. What man ought to do does not always equal what man is able to do.

All scriptures which deals with the Lord calling people to make a choice in the Bible are always addressed to the covenant community, which already have God's law and statues - not the unbelieving world.

We have gotten a worldly christendom in our day, which put man and not God in the centre of everything. I call that apostasy.
 

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So what ? Then a person cant believe in Christ, or repent towards God unless they have been born again, thats what.
That's the Cart before the horse.

Scripture makes it clear:

Romans 10:9 “That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.” King James Version (KJV)
 

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Romans 10:9 “That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.” King James Version (KJV)

"If" implies a choice.
Who will do this other than the regenerate?