How to put an end to a quarrel?

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How to put an end to a quarrel?

In the Old Testament there was a custom, to wit, put lots:

• Pro 18:18 -> “The lot puts an end to quarrels and decides between powerful contenders.”.

In the time of Joshua, for instance, Canaan was allotted by sort:

• Jos 14:2 -> “Their inheritance was by lot, just as the LORD had commanded by the hand of Moses for the nine and one-half tribes.”.

Nonetheless, take a look at what is written below:

• Pro 16:33 -> “The lot is cast into the lap, but its every decision is from the LORD.”.

Every decision is from the Creator. So, before trying to repine against someone, believe that every decision is from Him. One good example of this can be seen when Jesus was about to be born.

• Luk 2:1-3 -> “In those days a decree went out from Caesar Augustus that all the world should be registered. This was the first registration when Quirinius was governor of Syria. And all went to be registered, each to his own town.”.

Caesar Augustus issued a decree just in a moment that Mary was about to give birth to Jesus. In virtue of this, Mary was obliged to give birth in the manger (Luke 2:7). At first, this sound unjust, cruel. Well, if this decree wasn’t issued, Jesus would have been born in Nazareth and the prophecy would fail.

So, although this decree was arbitrary, this was the way that the Creator provided to convince Joseph go to Bethlehem. Otherwise, he, for sure, never would take Mary to a journey.

Well said Jeremiah:

• Jer 10:23 -> “I know, O LORD, that the way of man is not in himself, that it is not in man who walks to direct his steps.”.

If we keep in mind this truth all the time, we will never bicker with anybody. Instead, understanding that it is Jesus who is behind all decision, let’s try to figure out His message for us amidst all injustice against us.

Someone can question: “the problem is that the person hates me”.

Nevertheless:

• Pro 16:7 -> “When a man's ways please the LORD, he makes even his enemies to be at peace with him.”.

So, considering that our fight is against flesh and blood (Eph 6:10-13), have a good day rendering your life to Jesus’ will, regardless if something sound like unrighteous. Remember how cruel and mean was the attitude of Judas (to whom Jesus loved until the last moment, even though He knew that He was betraying Him – Mat 26:50). However, this was necessary so that the Holy Scripture could fulfill and, thus we could be saved.