I am not a Virgin but in God's word I know better to be one until Marriage

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KatyGirl1994

KatyGirl1994

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KatyGirl1994 said:
Well hello everyone,

So here I am putting myself out there.I am 22 years old and I am not married. And I am not a virgin. But I know better. I know to be saving myself for marriage. I go in stages where I am all about God and I am reading books and studying the Bible. Then I kind of stray away and go my own way of life.

I think me not being a virgin is because of low self esteem. I don't respect myself enough. I don't think I could ever find a man to truly love me. So I go and date the losers and sleep with them that say they love me but don't respect me. My ex boyfriend and I just broke up again after being on and off for 2 in half years. I want marriage and children and he really kind of doesn't. He says he loves me but isn't ready for those things and if we had a kid when he wasn't ready for it he would bail on me. My love for being a mother and a wife someday is my much greater than my love for him.

Now it would be very wonderful to find a Godly man that loves Jesus. As I did get baptized on July 14, 2013. But since I am not a virgin and I have slept with multiple partners, I feel like I won't be able to find a Godly man to accept this about me. Now I know God still loves me and forgives me, I have had these conversations with God many times. But I just have the low self esteem part of not being able to find the right man to love me for all of me. All of who I am as a person inside and outside. For my faults as I am not perfect, from past mistakes.

Anyone care to help a girl out with some advice?

Much appreciated and Thank you
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All that you are doing in your life don't matter,because you have not been born again. You must call on the name of Jesus, and ask him to save you from damnation and destruction of your soul. You can't tell him nothing he already know about you. He know things about you that you probably cant even remember. all he wants to do is save you and give you eternal life. If you are sincere about him saving your soul, he will cleanse you of your sins. you cant do it so dont even try. ask him, and he will take it from there.
 
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