I feel like some kind of sexual predator

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buckeyegirl700

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tkgurl said:
umm wow....you dont sound like a sexual predator...well im a girl and maybe your looking into it too much. because i do things like that subconsciously. so dont take it personally. its like if us girls see a guy adjust their pants, we arent wondering if they like us. its just a habit or whatever. dont sweat it:)
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Good example about guys adjusting their pants. That is so true. I do not think that some men realize what they are doing when they do that. I also think that the actions mentioned that girls do when their are nervous are done subconsciously. I do not make plans to twirl my hair, play with my phone, and not make eye contact when I am around men.
 
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estrellas_bonitas

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ok, sharp. here is my thing. there are so many men out there who would love to do nasty things to girls. we all know this. and it freaks us out (expecually as Christian women....) we dont really want anything to happen. as for walking away and waiting for another elevator, i would do that for any man. not just you. it doesnt matter if it was a perv or not. i am not comfortable riding in an elevator (a thing which i am already uncomforable with) with a man i dont know. idk, maybe i have watched WAY to many movies where bad stuff happens in elevators....lol so its not just you. men on principle make a lot of us nervous. so dont take it personally. i am actually trying to make it where im not like this anymore. some of the best friends a girl can have is a male friend. they can let us know what is going on in the male mind and if a guy scares us and is being a true perv, all we have to do is..."hey, so and so is being a perv...take care of him for me!!" and most guys will defend their female's friend's honor. its great!
also, i really dont like to make eye contact. i was really shy when i was younger and i am still trying to get over that with the eye contact thing. that is the last thing i need to conquer.. so yay! um as for other girls. think, they might have had a bad experience, like sexual abuse and they are terrified that someone else is going to do that to them again. it is an irrasional fear. one that is not easily taken out of your makeup once you have been sexually abused. that could account for some of the skittishness. hope that helped a little bit at least!
God bless!!!
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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<---- unless you got any of this goin on... im sure your good to go
 
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godsbluesman

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Anyway-lol I actually do have a little Ugly problem-Now when I was a sinner,lookin like this I was a natural female repellant-lol-!I believe that a woman can tell right away with a look wether your intentions are good or bad-and heere's why-I used to have nothing but unclean thoughts toward a woman when I looked at her. I wold be walking down the sidewalk and they would actually cross the street to avoid contact with me! But now,as my intentions are more pure,I have found that a smile that is sincere and a clean heart help alot with the repelling thing-I can talk to anyone and they can tell I am not out to hurt them or whatever.so I would ask this are You sure you are puttin out the right ...vibe to them?women are maybe smarter than you think,huh? Like I said,they will know immediatly if your intentions are wron and will react to protect themselves..
Since maybe some don't have the physical strenght you have they will use whtever other means they have to avoid you is they sense any danger.try canging the approach.I agree that a smile that is sincere will be a good step in the rightt direction for you. Since I am not the ....prettiest fella out here I honestly believe its my personality-all women are not looking for a hunky model-tyoe guy.They want someone they can trust and count on!!! anyway maybe this post will help or maybe not,but look at me and tell me...... I;m pretty close to the mark here. so try changing-If you expect to be rejected they will also sense that too and wonder why. I am no expert on this subject,really,But I am only sayin what I have learned over my 44 years in this world.I still look the same - this pic is only a few weeks old. God has cleansed more than my heart-also my whole outlook twards women and I can tell you this works well...
 

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periksandeep

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yes wierd and very common topic, but hey gotta tell u something , if a girl is doin all these things in ur presence , then she knows ur their and she already got ur attention , she got her sense on u .... either ways shes totally very has some issues or shes not confident enough to be normal before men! dont think a man should feel bad about himself when a woman around!
 
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