I haven't had friends in a long time.

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Live4Him2

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Novawin87 said:
I hear you on that i find its just so difficult to have a good conversation and fellowship anymore esp lately with the things of this world its sad cause even in church i find there not much fellowship or conversations anymore . I'm the type of person that kind of is heart on the sleeve type of person and I find since becoming a follower of Jesus I've lost most if not all of my friends even some that say they are Christian , i get things get busy tho there some friendships I find that things do come up and sometimes theres some distance but then they message you and you just pick up where you left off its difficult to find that it seems and also to find friendships that are more then like just surface hows the weather kind of thing I find im such a in depth talker like emotionally im passionate about bible topics and apologetics and how things work and whats the truth and even with like everyday life things like my family my kids my dogs , walking on trails i just try and look at the positive side of things even tho some days can be really difficult i know my worth is in Christ and to keep my eyes on him . im just that type of person that wants to meet friends that are just genuine and arn't spiteful that want to serve Jesus and just be them. i dunno thats how i look at a good friendship but if you ever want to chat im here im open to friendship to anyone! :) God bless you on this beautiful day
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I should be sleeping now (I'm a bit groggy) because I'm starting a new overnight job tonight, and I need to adjust my sleep schedule, but I'd be happy to chat with you in the future. Based upon the little bit that you just shared, it seems that you and I have a lot in common.

Ttyl.
 
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Novawin87

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Live4Him2 said:
I should be sleeping now (I'm a bit groggy) because I'm starting a new overnight job tonight, and I need to adjust my sleep schedule, but I'd be happy to chat with you in the future. Based upon the little bit that you just shared, it seems that you and I have a lot in common.

Ttyl.
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that sounds awesome!! ty and no problem I pray you have an amazing first day at your job , cya laters
 
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SamuelMichael

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I hope you all find friends. I am happy to talk with any of you.

I am similar I have church acquaintances that I can talk of God with.

What I really want is friends that are near to me and believe God and have faith similar or more than me. And they can keep me on the path that leads to eternal being.

I believe everyone you meet serves a purpose for your being.
 
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Joey1964

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I understand how the OP feels. I am a stranger in a foreign country that cannot speak the local language. I joined the expatriate church but felt like I was walking into a social club and not a church. I also do not want to be part of Christmas and Easter celebrations as I believe those are not Biblical, so I did not go back. That leaves me pretty much isolated here because of my beliefs. Thankfully one of the ladies at the church has been very kind to me and have come for coffee on occasions. Other than my husband, I really have no one to talk to. I do speak to my family in my home country very often on Skype. I am not lonely though, I have my JESUS.
 
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listenyoumustAll

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Novawin87 said:
I hear you on that i find its just so difficult to have a good conversation and fellowship anymore esp lately with the things of this world its sad cause even in church i find there not much fellowship or conversations anymore . I'm the type of person that kind of is heart on the sleeve type of person and I find since becoming a follower of Jesus I've lost most if not all of my friends even some that say they are Christian , i get things get busy tho there some friendships I find that things do come up and sometimes theres some distance but then they message you and you just pick up where you left off its difficult to find that it seems and also to find friendships that are more then like just surface hows the weather kind of thing I find im such a in depth talker like emotionally im passionate about bible topics and apologetics and how things work and whats the truth and even with like everyday life things like my family my kids my dogs , walking on trails i just try and look at the positive side of things even tho some days can be really difficult i know my worth is in Christ and to keep my eyes on him . im just that type of person that wants to meet friends that are just genuine and arn't spiteful that want to serve Jesus and just be them. i dunno thats how i look at a good friendship but if you ever want to chat im here im open to friendship to anyone! :) God bless you on this beautiful day
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How about you say hello on Facebook or email kick a new friendship . am in depth also a lot ,and care to know about truths and how it all comes together . Akpobome Ajueshi that's my name on Facebook ,my hotline is on there too ..*wink
 
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Bearedy

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Yes, I have been with loneliness for a long, long time, since my ex-girlfriend separated with me. We used to love each other so much and talk about everything. I tried to get her back. I ordered flowers for her, and customized a DR engagement ring which allows a man can only customize once in his lifetime. However, she returned them to me and told me that we were never going to make it. I don't understand the reason for our separation, maybe I didn't care enough about her to be there when she needed me (we are on a long distance relationship). Now two years apart, I haven't forgot her. I think I should try to contact her again, I think she is my only love. She is still alone.
 
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Bearedy said:
Yes, I have been with loneliness for a long, long time, since my ex-girlfriend separated with me. We used to love each other so much and talk about everything. I tried to get her back. I ordered flowers for her, and customized a DR engagement ring which allows a man can only customize once in his lifetime. However, she returned them to me and told me that we were never going to make it. I don't understand the reason for our separation, maybe I didn't care enough about her to be there when she needed me (we are on a long distance relationship). Now two years apart, I haven't forgot her. I think I should try to contact her again, I think she is my only love. She is still alone.
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Move on Brother. God's greatest gift is ahead of you, not in the rear view mirror.
 
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