i need help to be strong and healthy

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Darlene___m

Darlene___m

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my name is darlene and i have posted here before for help and prayers for my family.

well my family is no longer a family, my partner kicked us all out because he doesn’t and didn’t want any of us to begin with. i am hurting really bad now from being run down with exhaustion trying to keep our family together till he tore us apart.

he sent his children away and i found a new home. the mental damage of how much he treated me very badly is still corrupting my mind and making me feel like i can’t do this but yet i got it. i was sick inside for a long time but not covid sick because i got tested.

i am sick with i don’t know but i would like to get better soon so i can go be with my daughter and new grandbaby in another town. i am tired of being alone and crying all the time feeling lost and unloved when i shouldn’t because i have a beautiful 6 year old daughter named Arianna who needs me to be strong.

i can’t let him win by tearing me apart with his words anymore and hearing his voice speak lowly of me to me. he’s the only person in edmonton that i have i can trust in edmonton to take my child if i get seriously sick but he won’t even talk to me anymore even when he knows i am being treated for pneumonia and am hurting. he didn’t help me move i had to ask strangers online for help. i wish i wasn’t this crazy lost person right now and wish i had a real home to live in with my home town. please pray for me to get better and be strong because i want to be with my daughter and grandson because its not healthy to be heartbroken and alone in a city with my daughter
 
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mar09

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Hi Darlene,
Good that you can unload some of the burden here. There are members here who find time to pray, even if not always able to post. I pray the Lord Himself be your Provider, Comfort, Healer, Refuge and Strength.

Hold on to His words, abide in Him, and let His words abide in u. That's a formula ive always found to work. Will keep in prayers.
 
TabinRivCA

TabinRivCA

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He is a negative in your life, some relationships are just that. I would run from a guy like that myself. Are there any Bible groups or Churches around....I'd hate to have to ask someone like that to care for my daughter. Won't he just put you down in front of her, or esp alone w/her? I pray, in Jesus's Name, that God send you good friends and contacts to help you out in everything you need, Amen. Also, the Bible says to ask for wisdom and He will give it to us, I do everyday. God bless and keep you and your family!
 
Darlene___m

Darlene___m

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TabinRivCA said:
He is a negative in your life, some relationships are just that. I would run from a guy like that myself. Are there any Bible groups or Churches around....I'd hate to have to ask someone like that to care for my daughter. Won't he just put you down in front of her, or esp alone w/her? I pray, in Jesus's Name, that God send you good friends and contacts to help you out in everything you need, Amen. Also, the Bible says to ask for wisdom and He will give it to us, I do everyday. God bless and keep you and your family!
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thank you so much but right now in life i feel he is the only one who actually talks to me. i fear my eating and a whole bunch of me is diminishing away with thoughts of sadness and anxiety. i find it so hard to forget him and relearn to focus on me and my daughter .

thank goodness i have her to tend to but when it comes to me i have no focus. i fear i might start becoming alcoholic again because i have not been trying to help myself cope healthy


i pray for strength and courage to keep strong and sometimes i wish anyone in my family would call me to check on me.
 
TabinRivCA

TabinRivCA

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Darlene___m said:
thank you so much but right now in life i feel he is the only one who actually talks to me. i fear my eating and a whole bunch of me is diminishing away with thoughts of sadness and anxiety. i find it so hard to forget him and relearn to focus on me and my daughter .

thank goodness i have her to tend to but when it comes to me i have no focus. i fear i might start becoming alcoholic again because i have not been trying to help myself cope healthy


i pray for strength and courage to keep strong and sometimes i wish anyone in my family would call me to check on me.
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I will pray that God sends good friends into your life and He keeps you healthy in mind, body and Spirit for your daughter, in Jesus's Name, Amen!
 
Bingo

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Darlene___m said:
thank you so much but right now in life i feel he is the only one who actually talks to me. i fear my eating and a whole bunch of me is diminishing away with thoughts of sadness and anxiety. i find it so hard to forget him and relearn to focus on me and my daughter .

thank goodness i have her to tend to but when it comes to me i have no focus. i fear i might start becoming alcoholic again because i have not been trying to help myself cope healthy


i pray for strength and courage to keep strong and sometimes i wish anyone in my family would call me to check on me.
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"Your words have been heard.
Let us pray you put alcohol out of the equation!
Let us pray you focus on your well being, and hopefully things will fall in place accordingly.
Perhaps a support group close by, should be considered. Let us pray to know, putting God in
our lives is always good, but not always easy. I pray you choose to make an earnest effort to
let God's inspiration inspire your life in a meaningful way, and to know it works, so long as
we work at it...believe it! "
'Amen'
'Praise God'

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levi85

levi85

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Lord bless Darlene___m, and this prayer request, in Jesus precious name, Amen!
 
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Prycejosh1987

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Darlene___m said:
my name is darlene and i have posted here before for help and prayers for my family.

well my family is no longer a family, my partner kicked us all out because he doesn’t and didn’t want any of us to begin with. i am hurting really bad now from being run down with exhaustion trying to keep our family together till he tore us apart.

he sent his children away and i found a new home. the mental damage of how much he treated me very badly is still corrupting my mind and making me feel like i can’t do this but yet i got it. i was sick inside for a long time but not covid sick because i got tested.
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Sorry to hear that, Have open and honest communications with him. Try to work things out with your pastor or couples counselling. There are underlying issues that need to be addressed. Emotional abuse is never anything good, but i think there is a reason he all of sudden is being like this. Good luck, i am praying for you/them.
 
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