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HappyDude

HappyDude

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ok im at a loss here ive been trying to find a good christian woman around my age im now 24 and i dont know what i can do ive met people that i like but they are one wont commit or they are in a different state i live in south texas i do go to church but not often because of work if you have any advice that would be very helpful thank and god bless
 
Well, are you sure you want to be asking a bunch of single people who also haven't found a nice christian someone around their age to marry about how to find someone to marry? Welcome to singles forum by the way. There isn't much to glean from your post, but my first piece of advice would be don't come on too strong, too fast. It can scare a girl off. And don't let your self worth get tied up in whether you can find a girl to date you today or not.
 
that just it im very nice person and i grew up in a southern home and learn to respect everybody no matter how nasty they are to me i have been off the market till a few months ago
 
off the market as in recent break up? And there is such a thing as being too nice and accommodating and not showing enough personality of your own to spark any of her interest.
 
you could say that i had a hard time talking to people for a few years and i have a bad rep in my hometown for some anger issues a few years back im willing to make changes to make it work
 
Well definitely keep working on you and making healthy and positive changes. And it will probably take time for the new you to build a new rep that overcomes the old one. Also not a bad idea to think through some of the changes you are willing to make and some you aren't.
 
yea i have been working on that rep thing for a few years but i the people i meet are up north or something like that i cant reloacte cause of work
 
I know Texas is big, but it's not so big that you couldn't spend time getting to know someone over the internet with maybe a few visits over long weekends or something. After that, if the two of you wanted to make a go of it you could look into getting a new job in her area (or vice a versa).
 
i have friends that i want to meet and get to know better i live with bunch of wackos i do work for walmart relacting is not the issue its my crazy famliy that makes impossible to deal with
 
Maybe the lack of periods in your sentences is what's driving women away?
 
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