I need some help?

[FITSEA]

I am just a man. Temporary tent. One body in Christ Jesus. The bride of christ. Gods choice. Man of god. Woman of god. Gods creation, sin entered through one man, Adam. Washed clean by the precious blood of Christ, new creation, Perfect. I am just a man. God bless you. The bible is the best book about Man read about Christ the man to learn about men.

 

[Lighthearted]

As a general rule, men are more logical and women are more emotional.

This is why they work well together and kinda suck apart. A guy's logic without a woman's emotional insight is cold, calculating and uncaring. A woman's emotion without a man's methodical nature is energy scattered to the wind. Together a man and woman have all the bases covered.

Mind you, I have never been married so I could be totally wrong. But this is what I have observed.

Lynx? Energy scattered in the wind??? How about caring energy that can multitask and organize an entire family while going through hormonal changes or bodily changes and maintain her emotional sanity....? Oh...that's right...you haven't experienced that...YET! But wasn't there a woman in your upbringing that couldn't compare to even Wonder woman in your eyes?

 

[Zi]

Thanks but I meant more day to day norms..

I am just a man. Temporary tent. One body in Christ Jesus. The bride of christ. Gods choice. Man of god. Woman of god. Gods creation, sin entered through one man, Adam. Washed clean by the precious blood of Christ, new creation, Perfect. I am just a man. God bless you. The bible is the best book about Man read about Christ the man to learn about men.

 

[Galatea]

Doubtful I can give you a good answer. All I can give is my experience, which is warped due to my own personality, biases, and beliefs.

To change the gender on a saying:

"You can love men, or you can understand them. If you understand them, there is very little about them to love."

You greatly underestimate a woman's capacity to love. If a woman loves you and you conceal something about yourself, she will know you are concealing some part of you. Tell her all, and she will love you more. It will increase the love. Increased intimacy = increased love. I don't know if you ever read or saw Rebecca by Daphne du Maurier. In it, the male character concealed a part of him from his wife. Since she adored and loved him, she knew he concealed something. There was not 100% intimacy between them. He could not tell her and open this door as he did not want to diminish the love she had for him.

But his concealment made her unhappy. She so desperately wanted to understand, and tried. He would not help her understand, and she was groping in the dark. Once she knew and understood him, they were at last completely intimate. An intimacy of body, mind, and soul. I don't think it is a coincidence that the book was written by a woman. Women long to understand.

When you find your capstone, open every door and let her in to the dark places. She won't be surprised. Contrary to what men believe, women have dark places, too. We are better at hiding them, though.

 

[kaijo]

I know almost nothing about men. I have a sordid past and warpd my take on them.

while some can say don't judge, I still want to know what they are about and how they think and operate in general.

If anyone knows of any good books or material please do let me know..

Not "act like a lady, think like a man"

Thanks

If we're talking about in general... then id say that its probably exactly the same as women. Those who put themselves "first" (and others "last") ... and those who put themselves "last" (and others "first").

So, i reckon about 90% sit in the "first" category... and 10% sit in the "last".

Its a Big World out there.... So good luck searching out that 10% ^^" (But... Thank God for the internet ^^)