one that does things God's way, they say and when i say they i dont mean it in an us verses them kinda way, just most self proclaimimg Crstians but any way they say they r but dont stop and say to them self is this right by God, should we pray as a couple and ask Jesus what to do, examine your relationship to see if it lines up with Christ, with two in a realtion ship they should be strong, athree string cord is not easily broken