I'm in a relationship now!

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laura_charlotte said:
9. When this character's presented image is searched for in google or reversed searched by any other means - a disgusting image result is shown in multiples. It's clearly not the real person, it's clearly a stolen picture from various other websites.

10. The worst part is, what they've actively chosen to present you with, this disgraceful image - is totally pornographic. I've chosen to overlook this because this character litters their speech with scriptures, so that must make them a christian, right? right?

11. I had no idea that images can be reversed searched/searched in and needed to be taught this as a concept and how it could be facilitated.

12. They can't find a stable enough phone/laptop/computer ANYWHERE to do a video call for me to be able to see them. However, in amongst all this, they have a stable internet connection long enough to put in a request for money.

The reasons are endless. How much more evidence do you need to break away from this garbage and realize you have a lot of work to do on yourself?
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You probably could preach that to everyone in this singles forum...lol especially your last sentence..so in knowing that..i guess he fits right in here..EVRRYONE has things they need to work on in themselves..hes trusting n gullable..shoot him..sigh..at least hes not hard hearted n cynical...like so many of us become after failed relationships or wanting to love and be loved by someone...
 
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Well anyways I'm through with all this cowardly pussyfooting and speculation trying to figure her out when what I should have been doing is thinking on what "God wants" and I prayed to God tonight to bless our relationship and be in our relationship in all things for I know God can change anyone after all he's been molding me to be a better person over the years and I have been wicked in my past so if he can change me he can change her.
In conclusion there are some things I "know" to be "beneficial" to me in this relationship in a spiritually "good" way...
1.I have no desire to look at any other woman and I have not been pursueing smut things such as filth on the internet that I for so long have kept going back to until I started talking to her.(since I was about 10)
2.Though what she has asked for from me could be devious her asking for it has gotten me to get off my lazy rear and start walking for exercise and I actually like it so not so much idleness anymore which I have let rule me previously at times.( kept playing video games all day or laying in bed sleeping for way too long and leaving my mind open for satan to give bombard me with evil thoughts through influence)
To other people this may seem like "no big deal" but, for me this is "astounding" so long have I played into satan's hand with pursueing filth and idleness yet now it has left me!?
I certainly know that I didn't do anything to make this happen because I'm sure you've all noticed how I haven't been on very much and why?
Because I have been absolutely miserable, physically and emotionally in pain for months now and though I had still been trying to move forward for God I hit a wall of "not knowing what to do next" sure I kept my myself busy, working, playing games, partnering with youtube,singing and posting songs, signing up for more Christian sites, branching out with more media servers but, despite all this I had no "joy" though I tried to believe I did I mean sure I felt temporary times of being cheerful but, each time all of it ended up leading back to pursueing filth and idleness.
Yet now I can't get her out of my mind, my body has switched from sorrowful filth seeking to joyous loveing focus and I don't get tired of talking to her.
So I'm just going to do what couples all over the world should consider doing "have faith".
 
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laura_charlotte said:
9. When this character's presented image is searched for in google or reversed searched by any other means - a disgusting image result is shown in multiples. It's clearly not the real person, it's clearly a stolen picture from various other websites.

10. The worst part is, what they've actively chosen to present you with, this disgraceful image - is totally pornographic. I've chosen to overlook this because this character litters their speech with scriptures, so that must make them a christian, right? right?

11. I had no idea that images can be reversed searched/searched in and needed to be taught this as a concept and how it could be facilitated.

12. They can't find a stable enough phone/laptop/computer ANYWHERE to do a video call for me to be able to see them. However, in amongst all this, they have a stable internet connection long enough to put in a request for money.

The reasons are endless. How much more evidence do you need to break away from this garbage and realize you have a lot of work to do on yourself?
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You know sometimes life isn't all numbers and trivial reasoning if it were I would still be a technical atheist and wouldn't have accepted Christ as my saviour.
 
thatfizzyguy said:
Well anyways I'm through with all this cowardly pussyfooting and speculation trying to figure her out when what I should have been doing is thinking on what "God wants" and I prayed to God tonight to bless our relationship and be in our relationship in all things for I know God can change anyone after all he's been molding me to be a better person over the years and I have been wicked in my past so if he can change me he can change her.
In conclusion there are some things I "know" to be "beneficial" to me in this relationship in a spiritually "good" way...
1.I have no desire to look at any other woman and I have not been pursueing smut things such as filth on the internet that I for so long have kept going back to until I started talking to her.(since I was about 10)
2.Though what she has asked for from me could be devious her asking for it has gotten me to get off my lazy rear and start walking for exercise and I actually like it so not so much idleness anymore which I have let rule me previously at times.( kept playing video games all day or laying in bed sleeping for way too long and leaving my mind open for satan to give bombard me with evil thoughts through influence)
To other people this may seem like "no big deal" but, for me this is "astounding" so long have I played into satan's hand with pursueing filth and idleness yet now it has left me!?
I certainly know that I didn't do anything to make this happen because I'm sure you've all noticed how I haven't been on very much and why?
Because I have been absolutely miserable, physically and emotionally in pain for months now and though I had still been trying to move forward for God I hit a wall of "not knowing what to do next" sure I kept my myself busy, working, playing games, partnering with youtube,singing and posting songs, signing up for more Christian sites, branching out with more media servers but, despite all this I had no "joy" though I tried to believe I did I mean sure I felt temporary times of being cheerful but, each time all of it ended up leading back to pursueing filth and idleness.
Yet now I can't get her out of my mind, my body has switched from sorrowful filth seeking to joyous loveing focus and I don't get tired of talking to her.
So I'm just going to do what couples all over the world should consider doing "have faith".
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You aren't in a relationship.
 
Well to all of you here who were "serious" and "respectful" concerning what I shared and sought to give me sensible advice in loving friendship or fellowship thank you for your time and all your great advice, making me feel welcome to talk to you about my personal life which of course I didn't have to include anyone here in.
To all those who basically insulted me please accept Jesus as your Saviour if you have not already and consider dropping the ego trip.
Now that I feel this thread has run it's course I'm going to request one of the mods to close/lock this thread.
And don't any of you worry this thread changes nothing I will still be around here on Christian Chat because I feel at home here and I'm not about to let my self get upset over direct constructive advice and a fare few rude insults.
 
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Jewel5712 said:
You probably could preach that to everyone in this singles forum...lol especially your last sentence..so in knowing that..i guess he fits right in here..EVRRYONE has things they need to work on in themselves..hes trusting n gullable..shoot him..sigh..at least hes not hard hearted n cynical...like so many of us become after failed relationships or wanting to love and be loved by someone...
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You bet I fit in here because Christian Chat is a place for the lost to learn how to be saved, the saved to learn how to not be ego maniacs,silly people like me to have fun in making or talking in random threads, and above all a place for fellowship, good friends, and a place dedicated to God and his word.
 
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thatfizzyguy said:
Well to be honest I "didn't have a decent upbringing" so naw duh I'm practically a basket case wishing to be normal
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You know sometimes life isn't all numbers and trivial reasoning if it were I would still be a technical atheist and wouldn't have accepted Christ as my saviour.
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Even before I'd spoken to you through my posts, what you've followed up with has screamed volumes about the issues you have and what you should be currently working through with the Lord in your life. Absolutely nothing I've said is trivial. It's vital to your understanding of safety, people, relationships and life at large. Judging from your posts I think you're severely lacking in those areas. Your vulnerability stems in large part to your ignorance. It's totally your decision to get yourself involved in such insanity, but the harder you fall, perhaps that's what it will take for you to learn your lessons. Godspeed.
 
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Well to all of you here who were "serious" and "respectful" concerning what I shared and sought to give me sensible advice in loving friendship or fellowship thank you for your time and all your great advice, making me feel welcome to talk to you about my personal life which of course I didn't have to include anyone here in.
To all those who basically insulted me please accept Jesus as your Saviour if you have not already and consider dropping the ego trip.
Now that I feel this thread has run it's course I'm going to request one of the mods to close/lock this thread.
And don't any of you worry this thread changes nothing I will still be around here on Christian Chat because I feel at home here and I'm not about to let my self get upset over direct constructive advice and a fare few rude insults.
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And I actually told you all here "first" about my relations before seeking to tell my family because I wanted perspective and just to tell someone about this in confidence.(seriously I have told you all here over the years stuff that I don't feel comfortable talking about with my own family about and I appreciate that sort of window to the outside world option with you because it's easier to talk on the internet than it is face to face and these sort of discussions make good practice for working up gumption and just what to say to my family)
 
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thatfizzyguy said:
And I actually told you all here "first" about my relations before seeking to tell my family because I wanted perspective and just to tell someone about this in confidence.(seriously I have told you all here over the years stuff that I don't feel comfortable talking about with my own family about and I appreciate that sort of window to the outside world option with you because it's easier to talk on the internet than it is face to face and these sort of discussions make good practice for working up gumption and just what to say to my family)
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@thatfizzyguy it is really good to have a support system, I am really happy that you have been able to find it here. This is such a diverse group of People that we can all learn so much from one another.
 
Joe.

If you're still talking to this scammer, I want to choke slam you, the beat sense into your thick head.

With love.
 
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Noh @thatfizzyguy, you would never go back!
You are way too smart to be talking to that “scammer girl” again!! Remember you gotta guard your heart...otherwise, when the “for reals girl” walks into your life, you are going to miss out on her because you were way too busy cleaning up the old mess!!!! Trust me it’s easier to walk away NOW rather than later!
 
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