Ive always had a problem with the praise thing, God doesnt need a pat on the back, an atta boy, a way to go God, some of the things God does are good, some are bad, God doesnt need praise,giving him thanks is fine and I do do that.
Praise isnt an expression of faith in the least, it is just thinking God is shallow and will buy these things. Its patronizing,I would think God doesnt like that at all. I would hope he appreciates honesty.
God does not need our praise but he does invite us to praise and worship him. I agree that worship of God should be genuine and not used as a way to try and get what you want. King David worshipped and praised God in the hardest of times. He was also very honest with God about what he was going through... he was not one to sugarcoat in his prayers. I hope things began looking up for you. I will pray for you and your daughter.