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I knid of like this girl but I can't figure out if I should
try to do anything
I prayed about it but I still don't know
any suggestions
 
Keep praying. Don't quit.
God will answer you in his own time. And be open to receive the answer God gives you. :)
Have you tried fasting?
 
JJAC said:
I knid of like this girl but I can't figure out if I should
try to do anything
I prayed about it but I still don't know
any suggestions
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Go ask her, JJ, if she likes you, the Lord leads, let Him, give Him a chance to lead you in this time. So it doesn't go great, that is OK. Practice will make you better at understanding girls. Make sure you are right with God, too, even being young , maybe even more so, you should be following God best you can in life before you go with girl or you will have trouble. Sin is crouching at ALL our doors (Gen. 4, Cain example) And, here is the good news , God says we 'should' rule over it. And, that says , , that we can, but only with God leaned on for everything . Proverbs 3: 4,5,6 are three of my favorite verses for understanding the Lord leading your life :)

Have you given your life to Christ?

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And, yes, like BlueSeraphin says, fast. Or, you can also do things like open up your bible and pray that God gives you a verse (hint: He will :) ) Take THIS girl seriously IF you really like her and just go out there on faith that God will get you up the mountain, so to speak, and, provide GREAT words to you in front of her as you feel like you are about to start crying or something when you ask her out. (Yes, this is an 'Abraham' analogy :) )

Pray again ,too, and, again, God says in scripture to 'pray without ceasing.' Our lives should be one of CONSTANT prayer :)
 
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Some girls will be just fine with any man who will give her attention... but only briefly. I'm sure you don't want a girl that will give herself to anyone.
You can ask her out and all that jazz, but don't stop praying about it.
If God tell you it's not right... please, listen.
I didn't once, and it hurt me... badly.
 
You're only 15. Don't waste your time dating, and likely end up getting hurt, or hurting someone, and instead just put your focus on your walk. Use your time to serve God. Save the dating til you're old enough to actually marry, and til you're mentally, spiritually, financially and emotionally ready.
 
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You're only 15. Don't waste your time dating, and likely end up getting hurt, or hurting someone, and instead just put your focus on your walk. Use your time to serve God. Save the dating til you're old enough to actually marry, and til you're mentally, spiritually, financially and emotionally ready.
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Agreed. I started dating early, even got married pretty young. Both of those were mistakes. If you like her and something works out great. But don't rush anything. You should have a few more miles on your engine yet.
 
I have to agree about waiting and not rushing. I am 32 years old and single and I am content to wait on God. There are days that are harder than others, but I am glad that I don't have ex-boyfriends and such to muddy up the relationship I will have with my husband, should God choose to call me to marriage. Patience, patience, patience...something these days don't teach us. Wait on the Lord and His will.
 
I agree you are young but still I have some advice for you. All ways be a gentelmen and give her sincer complaments that arent dirty. If you smoke or use cuss words stop doing it. They are turn offs. Treat everyone in your life with respect. Get good grades and be to all your classes on time. Obey your parents and Talk to God dailey.
 
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