In so much pain, please pray for me

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sophi3

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It has been over a month since my bestfriend/boyfriend broke up with me. We have been together for 3 years and I seriously believed that he is the one God gave me. He broke up with me because of what I interpreted as greed and lust.

I pray that God heals my heart and mind completely. I've been on a cycle of pain because I was blaming myself. That I didn't give enough of me. That I showed my broken self too much and that he had enough of my sadness/angst. That physically I wasn't enough either.

He is confused with struggles in life. I pray that God drives away the devils, and reunites us together. We both want to stay as best friends but it is very painful. We've stopped communicating alltogether.

Everyday I pray that God heals me. That he restores us together. Time heals all wounds but it has been over a month and I am still in pain. I've talked to family, friends, did meditation, prayed, went to a psychologist. I don't know what to do anymore. I pray that God touches his heart and opens his mind, destroys the walls he has built and returns to me.
 
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DorothyG

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Have you tried grief counseling? I'm not sure if it's offered in your country but if it is I highly recommend it.

Saying a prayer for you in your time of sadness.

Much love,
-Dorothyg
 
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DorothyG

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And welcome, by the way :)
 
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Danielle

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Prayed for you to get back together if it's Gods will that you be together.. If it isn't, I pray that you heal and find peace and happiness.
 
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sophi3

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DorothyG said:
Have you tried grief counseling? I'm not sure if it's offered in your country but if it is I highly recommend it.

Saying a prayer for you in your time of sadness.

Much love,
-Dorothyg
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That is offered by my psychologist but it is too expensive, so I can only go once a week for an hour. How did you cope with your breakup if you had one in the past?

Danielle said:
Prayed for you to get back together if it's Gods will that you be together.. If it isn't, I pray that you heal and find peace and happiness.
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Thank you very much Danielle
 
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jkalyna

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Instead of asking the Lord to bring him to you, pray that he will put the two of you together. There is the perfect mate for you, many people could come in your life, but they might not fit in the plan the Lord has for you, and like the wronge piece of the puzzel, if it isn't his will, being together physically, is not the same as being together, spiritually. Praying healing for both of you in Jesus name.
 
GodssSon

GodssSon

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I've been through similar...I'm praying for you! Look toward God over circumstances no matter how hard it seems. Let your focus be on Him! It makes all the difference! Message me if you ever want to talk.

Tim
 
damombomb

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Praying that the Lord will heal your emotions and take that from your heart and his will be done in your lives, in Jesus name
 
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sophi3

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Thank you all for your kind prayers
 
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