In the Meantime

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I've made so many friends through this forum. I've learned alot about myself and others. Hopefully, God has used me in this forum. BUT...wow...to be honest, sometimes some threads lead me to dwell far too much on my singleness, which is something I never really did before. That's why I start making goofy or at least more lighthearted threads. :) Anyone feelin' me??? :)

If we are single there's a reason for it whether we know it or not. Maybe the time just isn't right. Maybe we need to learn or change somethings first. Maybe the person we are to be with needs to do the same. Maybe it's God's plan for our lives. In any event, it is what it is. Why not make the best of it and use that time productively?
 
Wow...the message on my screen said this didn't work, but it did..and now there are two! hahaha

Admins, please feel free to dump one of them :)
 
I dont remember if i read something here on a thread or in other place, but it was about that the important thing was not about us to be single or not, that what was important was God and the plan that he has for us, that to remain single or not depended on which way we can serve Him in a best way.

And i have been thinking about it, when i read that, i started to wonder why im still single if would be better for me to serve Him as a married woman than a single, but i guess that first thought was my love to myself talking :o lol , but i dont know the future , only God knows, and God knows us better than anyone and know in which way we can serve Him better (as a single or as a married person).

So, mu conclusions (after a lot of thoughts) :D , are that in these years of singleness, i have had the opportunity to get closer to God, to grow, to help others, and have seen little by little my heart transforming in a new one for God. And despite all the desires that i had before of findind a husband to share my life, i am sure and i can see that to being single until now has been the better for the purposes of God.

So....in the meantime (i dont know how much "meantime" lol) i will try to make stronger my relationship with God, do what God wants, enjoy what God gives me, help who i can help, and be content with my life.