Absolute control over a person is not intimacy, I have never seen a relationship of intimacy where one person is trying to control every aspect of the other person's development.
If I create a device that claps out of a piece of wood by pressing a button, I would know that whenever the button was pressed, the device would clap.
Now imagine having created a human brain, and understanding how it works in every detail. Imagine knowing what a person will do as a result of simply the way the Creator made it. Knowing every synapse that will fire. Knowing even the exact time the body will release endorphins or hormones, and produce a function in the body. What if God knew the brain so intimately as to effect that timing Himself? Isn't He currently upholding all things by the word of His power?