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I'm been pressurized to get married and yet I have not gotten anyone.
I'm feeling depressed n lonely with no friend to talk to
 
Family pressure. Even something frustrated at home for me to go.
I lost my mum I stay with my Dad
 
I would suggest stay strong and not rush into anything. The problem with people pressuring others into marriage is that they stop using wisdom and make bad choices. If you give in to pressure you will greatly increase your chances of ending up in a bad marriage and possibly divorced. If you wait on God, rather than succumb to the pressures of man, you will live a happier life, whether single or married.
Culture and other peoples expectations should not determine choices that can affect your entire life.
 
I'm been pressurized to get married and yet I have not gotten anyone.
I'm feeling depressed n lonely with no friend to talk to

you look pretty young

i suggest asking God to help show you what he wants and see what he wants you to see (which im sure you do all the time anyway)

but patience is key here

seeing as how divorce isnt going to be an option
you want a life long God loving partner capable of putting Jesus before all and you before himself

its going to be really tough to find someone without God being the driving force that brings you together


i hope you find a man worthy of getting married to