“Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” --1 Thess. 5:16-18
"I'm just not happy anymore." This is a common complaint from a spouse who wants to divorce. If you are working and praying for reconciliation, stop looking to your spouse as a source of joy. Joy is a fruit of the Spirit and should not find its source in your spouse.
In Acts 16, we read how Paul was beaten and jailed. In jail, he sang praises to God! How is that possible? Paul's joy was not dependent on his circumstance but found in his relationship with Christ. Do you have a joy that comes from your relationship with Christ? Do you praise God at all times?
I hope that you will pursue the joy that comes from Christ by remaining in the true vine. Additionally, I hope that confidence and trust in Christ awakens an interest in new experiences that will contribute to your quality of life.
Take up a new hobby, pursue your passion, play on a sports league, and work toward your dream with small goals. Be sure to invite your spouse to be a part of your experiences as your life transforms into a healthy expression of the joy that can be found in Christ.
Dear Lord, Help us to draw near to You and remain in the vine. Give us the full amount of joy available from a life in Christ. Guide us to a joyful expression of Your love for our spouse and the world. Thank You that You always hear us and happiness is Your desire for us. In Christ's Name, Amen.