Just Some Random Thoughts

[marryrose28]

What are the things you consider in finding for the right man/woman for you? Do you have negotiable and non-negotiable in dating?

 

[Tommy379]

I just want to get along.

 

[marryrose28]

I just want to get along.

Oh okay. Thanks for your response.

 

[Tommy379]

I wonder about people with a list of unacceptable traits in a potential lover....
But then again, they're still single.

 

[marryrose28]

I wonder about people with a list of unacceptable traits in a potential lover....
But then again, they're still single.

Do you know a lot of people like that?

 

[Tommy379]

Do you know a lot of people like that?

Haha

Yes. They are all single.

 

[zeroturbulence]

Haha

Yes. They are all single.

Aren't you single too?

 

[Tommy379]

Exactly.

I can't even find someone I can get along with.

 

[Mel85]

What are the things you consider in finding for the right man/woman for you? Do you have negotiable and non-negotiable in dating?

Sharing the same of love for Christ and pursing Him.

I think having non-negotiable and negotiable things would restrict yourself. Thats Just my opinion.

 

[marryrose28]

Exactly.

I can't even find someone I can get along with.

So, are you speaking for yourself when you said, "people with a list of unacceptable traits in a potential lover.... "?

 

[Mel85]

Exactly.

I can't even find someone I can get along with.

 

[Tommy379]

So, are you speaking for yourself when you said, "people with a list of unacceptable traits in a potential lover.... "?

I have no list.

 

[Tommy379]

Who I get along with?

 

[Mel85]

Who I get along with?

Friendship wise, yes.
Romantically, questionable.

 

[marryrose28]

Sharing the same of love for Christ and pursing Him.

I think having non-negotiable and negotiable things would restrict yourself. Thats Just my opinion.

Thanks for sharing your opinion. I just thought that there are big differences between "Christian Guy" and a "Man of God".

 

[Mel85]

Thanks for sharing your opinion. I just thought that there are big differences between "Christian Guy" and a "Man of God".

What are the differences?

 

[marryrose28]

What are the differences?

I read this before on a post and I believe there's a truth in it.

 

[Mel85]

I read this before on a post and I believe there's a truth in it.

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There are some good points in that, but any man or woman could easily label themselves as a “Man/Woman of God” but live the life quite the opposite.

Which is why in my first post, I said “sharing the love of Christ and pursing Him”.

Reading that post reminds me of:

“But the LORD said to Samuel, "Do not look at his appearance or at the height of his stature, because I have rejected him; for God sees not as man sees, for man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart."”
‭‭1 Samuel‬ ‭16:7‬ ‭NASB‬

 

[marryrose28]

There are some good points in that, but any man or woman could easily label themselves as a “Man/Woman of God” but live the life quite the opposite.

Which is why in my first post, I said “sharing the love of Christ and pursing Him”.

Reading that post reminds me of:

“But the LORD said to Samuel, "Do not look at his appearance or at the height of his stature, because I have rejected him; for God sees not as man sees, for man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart."”
‭‭1 Samuel‬ ‭16:7‬ ‭NASB‬

Thanks for sharing

 

[marryrose28]

Exactly.

I can't even find someone I can get along with.

May I know why?