Let's Talk Sex, from a Biblical View

[LoveBrokeThru]

By consent.

 

[Edify]

not one church at all . if i did i would be online at all

i am learning i am different to all on here. so i think i should jsut leave . i dont want to. more likely i will return .

but time for some wine and some rubbish on TV to fill my time

With an attitude like that, WHY would God give you to a good christian woman?
So many ask God for a good christian spouse, yet they won't evaluate themselves as whether they are themselves a good mature christian to be that kind of spouse for the other person.
Instead of asking for a christian wife, ask God to make YOU a good christian husband.

 

[Live4Him3]

With an attitude like that, WHY would God give you to a good christian woman?
So many ask God for a good christian spouse, yet they won't evaluate themselves as whether they are themselves a good mature christian to be that kind of spouse for the other person.
Instead of asking for a christian wife, ask God to make YOU a good christian husband.

So often in life people think that they're waiting on God, but, in reality, God is waiting on them.

 

[kaylagrl]

One needs to be happy as a single to be happy as a couple. Otherwise you are place way too much pressure on the other person to make you happy. So because they are happy being single is what makes them dateable. Those are the ones you want to find, but on the flip side they are also looking for or expecting to meet a man who is happy as a single also, not someone expecting them to fulfill some need in them.

I've heard many people say "as soon as I stopped looking, I found someone." I thing you're more relaxed and more yourself when you are not under the stress of finding a partner. You gave very good advice.

 

[kaylagrl]

Hopefully, off.

Brother, at this age, my eyes are bad enough I can hardly see the end of my nose. Not something to worry about.

 

[kaylagrl]

Never tell anyone about the weaknesses of your spouse - period. That is private information that is to be kept between husband and wife. Only in the most unique and special cases should such ever be known outside of the couple without the consent of the one who has the weakness.

Hubby and I have always done this from the very first. We don't speak badly of one another in front of our parents or friends, we're even careful how we joke about each other. I knew a lady years ago and all she did was berate her husband to anyone who would listen, in front of him!! I always felt so sorry for that poor man.

 

[GardenofWeeden]

Hubby and I have always done this from the very first. We don't speak badly of one another in front of our parents or friends, we're even careful how we joke about each other. I knew a lady years ago and all she did was berate her husband to anyone who would listen, in front of him!! I always felt so sorry for that poor man.

My Mom told me once, that telling people the bad your spouse does, or his shortcomings, says as much about me as it does about him. If he is really as bad as we say, then why would we want anyone else to know how poorly we chose?

 

[soberxp]

So is the Jewish legend of Lilith real?

 

[GaryA]

Hubby and I have always done this from the very first. We don't speak badly of one another in front of our parents or friends, we're even careful how we joke about each other. I knew a lady years ago and all she did was berate her husband to anyone who would listen, in front of him!! I always felt so sorry for that poor man.

Of course, it is best if husband and wife can attain to never speaking badly of each other any at all - not even in private - because they truly understand, and never forget, the two-become-one reality that God put into place. And, they love each other enough to not want to [so much as] belittle the one they treasure.

Anyone who speaks badly of their spouse to someone else is not thinking clearly, being selfish, or worse.