Love robbed world

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Has anyone got any tips on how I can shake off the people who spiritually cake my heart and my head. I enjoy feeling and thinking. I read my bible but that only lasts until I meet the next person. There is things God wants me to do, but in this state I cannot do them. If I am going to find someone who loves me for being me, THEN I NEED HELP.
 
People will fail you and hurt you. The only being that won't is God. If you're hurt from others, you have to turn more towards God. Note...I don't mean avoiding people and become a hermit or a monk, but rather to work on your relationship with God. If that is flawed, then you will constantly be at risk of being wounded by others. If your relationship with God is on the right path, then what people do to you won't hurt you as much.
 
Lalilo said:
Has anyone got any tips on how I can shake off the people who spiritually cake my heart and my head. I enjoy feeling and thinking. I read my bible but that only lasts until I meet the next person. There is things God wants me to do, but in this state I cannot do them. If I am going to find someone who loves me for being me, THEN I NEED HELP.
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Are you talking about women that you were interested in or just people in general?
 
zeroturbulence said:
Are you talking about women that you were interested in or just people in general?
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People in general. I must be over reacting. I've always taken the good with the bad. It just seems there is more bad directed at me now I'm a Christian. I'll get use to it. It's my over reacting that allows it to affect me. New Christian = 1st year at school.
 
Ok then I have some tips for you. I originally posted this on another thread about controlling anger...

After I found Jesus I discovered some ways to deal with anger. The first way is to think of Jesus' suffering on the cross, especially the crown of thorns and how the roman soldiers hammered the nails into his hands and feet. Also, think of Jesus' sorrowful face because he sees how others treat you and he knows how much it hurts you. You are not alone in your pain.

The second thing is to ask Jesus to remove the dark cloud that has covered your heart. Picture that cloud in your mind covering your heart with darkness. Then picture it dissipating before your eyes, revealing a bright, beaming heart radiating light like the sun. I read once that we either spread darkness or light when we treat other people and no matter which one we spread, it causes the other person to spread it to others, to their family and friends, and coworkers. So it is good for us to stop the darkness in its tracks by asking Jesus to remove it from our hearts.
 
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