I can relate to that, and I've tried so hard to just let go and let God help them. Sometimes
you can't, sometimes you don't have a choice. God knows your heart and that you care
about this person. He will honor your prayers and your intercession for them
because of you, because you are his highly favored child. It doesn't matter
who they are and what they've done, you are seated in high places next to Christ Jesus.
I'd just say, give God what you can let go of so he can get you into the place of peace,
by letting him minister to you with worship music.
Its hard to trust God, but he is in love with you and you are special to him, everything you love
he loves, everything that makes you happy does so for him.
I pray for strength to trust God and let go, it's hard for me. You see how much I struggle
its not easy at all. Keep your eyes on Jesus and take them off the storm and worry,
and he will carry you out of the storm, you will be blessed, and so will those around you.
P.S. You have the power to charge angels, you are allowed to go boldly before the throne of grace to intercede for them, you have the ability to speak to the storm and say 'peace be still'...this is the heritage of the children of the Lord.
We are joint heirs.
