Hi Terry...
I am sorry that the chatroom put you down, and that it seemed everyone was all in a sudden against you. That is how a chatroom can become at times, and the worst is whenever we'd feel as attacked by others when we didn't do anything bad nor when we didn't deserved it. I have also seen many times that people in the Lounge room starts playing some music or singing in there when it is supposed being random, as well as I have seen people in the prayer room using the room for more random talking than praying. If one are to judge what you did in one room whilst being open for doing differently in another room, I think one should be careful with judging in the first place.
Also; I know how it is coming into one chatroom, sharing my opinion and then to see everyone grouping against me, whilst some are quiet. It hurts and makes one more sad if you feel like you are standing there alone whilst everyone else supports each others, as well as I have been wondering if someone of those being quiet might agree with some opinions of mine but deciding to just keep quiet so that they won't get others from the chatroom being against them. Still, it does helps sometimes that other people can stand up with you no matter if everyone else decides being against you and that other person. It is brave standing up and supporting another person when all the crowd goes against one, of course, when the other person also agrees with you, or knows and understands what you are talking about.
Just know; Whenever this happens it is best going out from the chatroom, calml down one self, and then when you have calmed down from all of the boiling going on inside of you, then it is easier to think much more clearer and to getting more stable again with those chaotic emotions that just were arosing up within you. As well as it is easier handling everything with much more peace if going back again into the chatroom later on. You are not alone on this. ((Hug))