Married to non christian

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I made an mistake marrying my hubby too soon. I was going thru a lot In my life. We have a daughter and I'm prego again. My hubby has completely different belief of God, he thinks watching porn isn't considered adultery. I told him how I feel but he won't stop, he just says to quit looking thru his stuff. I want him to be a leader in this family not me having to take the responsibility. My mom was always leading my dad to God but he also watch nasty movies and cussed. I wish my dad supported my mom with having God in our family. I'm more of a follower than a leader, I just want me husband to help me lead me to God and stay reminded to do things. I keep thinking God has somebody else planned for me who will accept my kids. Or maybe he'll turn into a Christian and be a completely different person. I feel so lonely and hopeless, cause I'm not happy all the time. My husband sometimes get calls me lil names and don't want to have sex with me cause I ain't fit enough for him. He is very controlling but accuses I am. When all I ask him is too quit watching porn and looking at girls. I've prayed to God about this and I just seeing what God will is for me, too stay or to leave
 
Prayers will be answered, Lord change this brother ' s belief on you. Let you speak and bring from the darkness to eternal life, Amen!
 
Most of us make mistakes in life, sometimes huge mistakes. I don't feel that your mistake was in marrying your hubby too soon, but rather, marrying him in the first place. God's will is for you to have life and to have it more abundantly. I think that you need some time by yourself to access the bad situation that you have found yourself in, pray to God, and then make the appropriate changes in your life. Welcome to CC.
 
I pray that God might convict his heart and unharden it so he can love you and realize the need to obey God in everything.
 
I wouldn't say I married your husband so soon was the mistake. sometimes people look at mistakes and regret them. 10 I've always had was not to regret anything. Because our mistakes is what makes us who we are today. And if you never would have married your husband you never had your two beautiful children. Yes your husband can be weird at times and not listen I think that's more common in men lately anyways. anyhow we should be patient and love one another. If you think so and you're not happy you need to print it out and see what he lead you to do. but no matter what always share the custody of the children if you leave because my parents split up and I didn't have one or the other. I just had one and it sucked. just make sure your children know who got it just because the husband don't want to doesn't mean you have to keep her from the children pS if the husband is abusive you need to leave the relationship as soon as possible.
 
My husband also either doesn't believe, or doesn't know what he believes. But in my situation I feel more like he deceived me because when we were dating we'd always go to church and he never said anything. ( I should've known since I always had to kinda push him. I just thought that was him being lazy ) but we got pregnant young so I thought I had to marry him. Most of the time I feel like he's temporary and so alone. Like I wouldn't even notice if he was gone. I pray for you that God guides you to be who you were meant to be.
 
Iam currently in a relationship where iam engaged to a non believer. I mean we were already engaged before i gave my life to Jesus the last time. I witness to Him, take him to church and bible study. However he still chooses to live in sin even though he heard about christ. He still smokes and smokes weed and i dont like it. I mean i always desired to be with a man of God, someone who will help me get closer to God too, to encourage me, pray with me, doing Godly things with me. It should be the husband in charge of the household? I know God is but isn't it the husbands job to help build a foundation of Christ into the home. I mean i pray that He will come to accept Jesus in His heart. However it bothers me that i even went back to him because he doesn't have God in His life. What should i do at this point? Because this relationship is unsatisfying for me because he is to stubborn to surrender his life to God even though he says he will. He accepts me of my choices to follow Jesus, i just dont know what to do if i should leave him or what? Because we are suppose to be getting married by this june but i dont know if im even making the right choice because what if i marry him and hes still a sinner while im a believer. Isn't that wrong can someone please give me some feedback and the right answers please as this is bugging me. Thanks.
 
There's only one person who can fix your situation........... and it's only God. There is nothing so big that He can't handle. Call unto Him without ceasing and patiently wait. There's this song that exactly talks about the situation you're in right now, Luminate - Heal This Home, jus listen to it. God is working on your situation......:)
 
I know i got it under control already Yaweh has helped me get rid of the guy cause hes not walking the same path as me.
 
Oh, I guess I replied too late. So U've decided to move on or remain single?
 
Remain single. I didn't like this guys lifestyle of sin he was living. I didn't want that so im gonna be patient and let Yaweh have His way with me. Praise Yah
 
I hope you find someone whom you share common interests with, especially someone who loves Jesus like you do. Am also kinda in that situation, there's this girl who told me that she likes me and I also like her. the thing is, she still hasn't finished school yet and I really don want to start a relationship that is maybe going to interfere with her studies. Am jus praying to God to help me in this, above all, May His will be done.
 
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