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meza
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I'm trying to move on but is so hard this is my very first break up from my very first love . Please help
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Trust in God's will. He only allows whats best for us. Think about what you may have been saved from rather than what you have lost. God bless.
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meza
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Thanks for the advice, church is the only place where I can go and just cry,everywhere else I have to pretend that I'm fine, when in reality I'm dying inside
You're welcome. It won't be easy for awhile. Losing your first love is supposed to be the hardest, but in time the heart does heal, maybe not completely but it does heal. God bless.
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meza
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It's totally fine, I've tried lots of things,movies,shopping etc. Everywhere I go or do reminds me of her
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Robbinette
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It will get better in time pick up a new hobby and distract yourself. Remember God always has a plan for us. If its meant to be at a later time then it will but if he has something better planned then it won't. Breakups are hard but sometimes they can be good for us. We have to learn who are again without that person with us. I'm sorry your going through a hard time. It will get better stay strong and give it time. Good luck and God Bless 
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meza
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Lecrae
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Hey man I'm right in your shoes. I just got dumped by my first girlfriend of 8 months last Friday. It's the hardest thing I've ever been through, because she wasn't only my girlfriend, she was also my best friend. And now that's all gone. She was the one that I went to with all my problems. Now I'm learning that I need to be dependant on God with my sorrows, not girls or family members.
My advice to you is to read your Bible for at least 30 minutes a day and pray for a good 15 minutes a day. Breaking up causes extreme feelings of loneliness, worthlessness, and depression (I've felt it all, as I'm sure you have as well). When you get right with God, all of those feelings fade away. I've gotten so much closer to God and this is your opportunity to as well.
In your time of singleness, become who you are really meant to be. When you were dating your girlfriend, your likes and interests conformed to hers, so basically you two were starting to become one in thought. When you guys break up, you become independent again. Become everything that (if you were a girl) you would want to be as a husband in Christ. Get re-instated in your hobbies that you took part of before you were dating. For me, my biggest hobby is road cycling. Once I started dating, I was in a road cycling club that rode 20-40 miles in the country. I loved it! I stopped doing that once I started dating, but now that I am single again I am going to sign up for the club.
Lean on God. He's the only thing that you should be dependent on.
Love ya as a brother in Christ,
Will
My advice to you is to read your Bible for at least 30 minutes a day and pray for a good 15 minutes a day. Breaking up causes extreme feelings of loneliness, worthlessness, and depression (I've felt it all, as I'm sure you have as well). When you get right with God, all of those feelings fade away. I've gotten so much closer to God and this is your opportunity to as well.
In your time of singleness, become who you are really meant to be. When you were dating your girlfriend, your likes and interests conformed to hers, so basically you two were starting to become one in thought. When you guys break up, you become independent again. Become everything that (if you were a girl) you would want to be as a husband in Christ. Get re-instated in your hobbies that you took part of before you were dating. For me, my biggest hobby is road cycling. Once I started dating, I was in a road cycling club that rode 20-40 miles in the country. I loved it! I stopped doing that once I started dating, but now that I am single again I am going to sign up for the club.
Lean on God. He's the only thing that you should be dependent on.
Love ya as a brother in Christ,
Will
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