I won't say “we're naturally inspired to built societies”, but relationships.
I do say God made us so perfectly we cling to those we belong, especially when He gave us His Spirit to live His life. (Thank you, God, for bringing us to a new life).
Dating could be unnecessary if we had God's advice clearly heard. I like to read Isaac's love story and that gave me tips worth noticing: a) Isaac's dad prayed in advance. b) The messenger prayed and did what his lord asked him to do. c) “Mates” pay attention to social status and economy, same way men and women look for beauty. d) Messengers (or penpals) must to look at good attitudes, such as humble service, chastity and fear of God.
Today I wouldn't say my daughter: “Marry him! He is rich, and of noble family”. That's awful and sinful (I'd be selling her to a man). If I'm asked, I'll give some words; but I should be praying same way Job did for his children.
Today Mrs and Mr Right is not my business arrangement, as it used to be. I rather back off, unless my sons plan to bring her mates home, to live under my roof: Go find your own place!
Todays dating is better than clandestine meetings. There is a reasonably risk in these, but public dating serve to help us develop the safe character we lack when being pagans and cheaters. It gives us chances to grow well and there's no need to push for intimacy or privacy.
Your Mr Right is not at the corner drinking, smoking or dancing. Your Mrs Right is not embraced in the darkness of a discoclub, doing things I cannot say.
The missing piece of a man (or a woman) is what we would like to do, to care for and endlessly nurture. I'm not sure if I lack a rib; but I'm sure it's a part of me I haven't lost somewhere that someone will unveil in similarities, likeness, I would like to share, to back up and care of.
God is marvelous! He gave us a code we know when meeting certain people. It's a kind of software that immediately runs or freeze the fashion we know we are or used to be. There's a secret hunch that tells us she is and some aren't, and the Bible teaches well to see what's good or wrong.
The world teaches us to fail, to hurt, to lie, to be lost of success. We expend decades loosing and seldom winning. How long these college lesson will be to suffer pains and to loose?
I wish I could heard God's warns. Sometimes I prayed and the things I thought were His answers misguided me to fail. Sometimes we here voices and those, too often, are our mingled voices, the confusion of the world within our selfish human will: Thank you God, for giving us a second chance.
Who's Mrs Right and Mr right?
It could be any who shows respect for others. One whose life tends to be centered of God's warnings and deeds. Anyone of good character who has what you like and wished to share and enjoy.
Sometimes you find someone you don't like and don't feel forced to accept what you do not like, on demands: The girl who came to marry Isaac like him at distance. She was “enticed” for reasons and had a commission to carry on: Marriage! (The essentials were “secured” when she saw the economic status of the one who asked her for his son and, getting home, she knew her mate was handsome, so she felt encouraged from the heart because of her eyes).
Do not marry unequally yoked. Do not date pagans and be safe from troubles. Your Mr Right is one you like, but pay attention to some warns received.
I do say God made us so perfectly we cling to those we belong, especially when He gave us His Spirit to live His life. (Thank you, God, for bringing us to a new life).
Dating could be unnecessary if we had God's advice clearly heard. I like to read Isaac's love story and that gave me tips worth noticing: a) Isaac's dad prayed in advance. b) The messenger prayed and did what his lord asked him to do. c) “Mates” pay attention to social status and economy, same way men and women look for beauty. d) Messengers (or penpals) must to look at good attitudes, such as humble service, chastity and fear of God.
Today I wouldn't say my daughter: “Marry him! He is rich, and of noble family”. That's awful and sinful (I'd be selling her to a man). If I'm asked, I'll give some words; but I should be praying same way Job did for his children.
Today Mrs and Mr Right is not my business arrangement, as it used to be. I rather back off, unless my sons plan to bring her mates home, to live under my roof: Go find your own place!
Todays dating is better than clandestine meetings. There is a reasonably risk in these, but public dating serve to help us develop the safe character we lack when being pagans and cheaters. It gives us chances to grow well and there's no need to push for intimacy or privacy.
Your Mr Right is not at the corner drinking, smoking or dancing. Your Mrs Right is not embraced in the darkness of a discoclub, doing things I cannot say.
The missing piece of a man (or a woman) is what we would like to do, to care for and endlessly nurture. I'm not sure if I lack a rib; but I'm sure it's a part of me I haven't lost somewhere that someone will unveil in similarities, likeness, I would like to share, to back up and care of.
God is marvelous! He gave us a code we know when meeting certain people. It's a kind of software that immediately runs or freeze the fashion we know we are or used to be. There's a secret hunch that tells us she is and some aren't, and the Bible teaches well to see what's good or wrong.
The world teaches us to fail, to hurt, to lie, to be lost of success. We expend decades loosing and seldom winning. How long these college lesson will be to suffer pains and to loose?
I wish I could heard God's warns. Sometimes I prayed and the things I thought were His answers misguided me to fail. Sometimes we here voices and those, too often, are our mingled voices, the confusion of the world within our selfish human will: Thank you God, for giving us a second chance.
Who's Mrs Right and Mr right?
It could be any who shows respect for others. One whose life tends to be centered of God's warnings and deeds. Anyone of good character who has what you like and wished to share and enjoy.
Sometimes you find someone you don't like and don't feel forced to accept what you do not like, on demands: The girl who came to marry Isaac like him at distance. She was “enticed” for reasons and had a commission to carry on: Marriage! (The essentials were “secured” when she saw the economic status of the one who asked her for his son and, getting home, she knew her mate was handsome, so she felt encouraged from the heart because of her eyes).
Do not marry unequally yoked. Do not date pagans and be safe from troubles. Your Mr Right is one you like, but pay attention to some warns received.