thank you both.
My cousin is having a very very difficult time. She knows that the time w/ her mom is coming short but is having a difficult time "letting go" which i know is always difficult to do. My aunt had a dream that she was going to live to be 95 or she is saying that God told her she'd live to be 95 and I think but not 100% sure, that she will be turning 95 at some point in December.
I wish I could see her. I haven't seen her in over 10 years but they live on the other side of the country and i have no opportunity to see her.
My cousins aren't very computer savvy otherwise I'd try and get a video chat going w/ them and my aunt.