I talk to God all the time. But I think he thinks I am just moaning.
You can express your feelings to Him. He had to listen to His parents when He was 12. He understands.
I always had to study from my dad. Others did fun things and I was at home, studying. He wanted me to become a professor, I think. He thought I inherited his brains lol. When I was 19 I ran out of the house. Finally freedom to just first sit a while on the couch when you get home and talk to other christian students, clean up when you want to, without being yelled at, lovely. I really prayed God for a students' home, I said Lord this is unbearable. It was almost impossible to get one here, but He listened and someone asked my brother the next day: hey, do you accidentily know someone who looks for a room? But until then just listen to them. This too shall pass. The rest of your life you can wear what you like.
And who knows, your mother might change when she sees that you listen. The dad of my kids got way less severe within a few years. First how I raised them was bad, but now that he sees that you don't have to be so strict in order for kids to listen and that they do really well, he loosened up quite a bit.