My family in termoil

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satan is working on my husband big time he wants to get a divorce he says that my presence just stresses him out so much that he is unhappy and in pain im so depressed.I'm the heaviest I've ever been I'm spouses to be getting a full hysterectomy in 4 months I'm taking a medicine that makes your hair fall out I've lost over 6 inches in length because its so brittle and now this my husband has no explaination for me other than I'm irritating him and stressing him out sounds like satan to me he wont do consuling with me I've asked him to do the love dare with me he says he can't take anything religious seriously the worst part of all of this is that I have 3 children caught in the middle of all of this and I need prayer for them just as much as my husband and I their names are owen 5 asher 3 and greycyn 6 mo I can already see what a toll this has taken on them I have been doing a lot of praying and reading my bible and God has shown me some awesome things and it seems everything I open my bible up to has to do with rebuilding I know if I praise God and let him lead me through this he will make me something new he can make my marriage something wonderful and and glorifying to him I need prayer for my husband that ppl will be put in his path that are good witnesses and that I will be made a light that he'll see a change in me and want to know more I know that things won't change unroll his heart changes my husband is such a slave to money the only thing he seems to care about it spending it and having the newest things I pray that the lord will just bind that and I pray that I will be able to keep this out look even though this hard time I need prayer for my boys that the lord just shields them from this adult situation Any thing else anyone can think of to pray for please do I welcome all prayers and suggestions and if anyone has bible verses they think would be a blessing to me at this time I welcome that as well thank you God bless
 
Well one thing, if you're taking a pill that's causing your hair to fall out maybe your body is trying to tell you something. I'd give that up. Often in a marriage all the couple needs is some time apart. Why don't you just tell him to go explore, go on a trip have an adventure, and when he's ready he'll be welcome back with loving arms. I bet any money that will solve this whole thing. That's the problem couples never take any time apart and then they just drive each other nuts. I've seen this so many times. But if they get some space after they get that out of there system, destress, then they'll miss the other person and wnat to get back to the family routine. And likely bring back more positive energy into the family. If you got 3 kids he's not gonna take off forever that's for sure. I'd encourage him to take off for a while and have some fun and destress like a trip or something. Dear lord please help her to get away from these Dr's that are making her ill and heal this family. Amen
 
The medicine I'm taking is primarily a cancer drug so that its just one of the side affects but it is supposed to help with the symptoms I'm having until I get my surgery and my husband is leaving monday for a two week long trip for work I've ben so fearful that time away will only put me at a disadvantage because I'm afraid he'll enjoy being away from me to much but I think at this point I need to just let him go and let him have his alone time and hopefully your right hopefully he will miss me I will just continue to pay that God works on him and me I'm only 23 yrs old I never thought that this is whee I'd be in my life with my health and my marriage I'm just feeling so defeated
 
Hey NicoleH, you're right on with your focus to be on God at times like these. Don't let your attention be on anything else, no matter what goes on! God will keep you in perfect peace when your mind is stayed on him -Isaiah 26:3. Keep faith in Him and He'll keep you on the right path, as well as your family. I'm praying right along with you and just know that everything will work out for the good. "Grace and peace be multiplied unto you through the knowledge of God, and of Jesus our Lord, According as his divine power hath given unto us all things that pertain unto life and godliness, through the knowledge of him that hath called us to glory and virtue" 2 Peter 1:2-3
 
Hi Nichole, Im so sorry there is so much happening in your lives right now.
I understand medications, I just had to stop taking a medication that was also a cancer drug because of the side effects, they can be difficult.
If the medication is helping though dont stop untill dr says so.
When my children were very small I had to have a hysterectomy also, it was a stressful timefor us as well.
My husband 's actions were more about worry and fear than anything else.
Men do not like having things that they have no controll over. :)
Sometimes when a husband is stepping away from God, the only thing you can do is give him to Jesus.
I had to do this as well, and when I did, Jesus took my husband and brought him in faith to him. :)
It took a bit of time, but soon my husband dedicated his life to Jesus,and since then both his love for Jesus and for me has grown every day.
Love your husband as called to in the Bible, and pray for him, giving him over to Jesus.
Jesus does do good work. :)
My husband and I have been married 31 years now, and each day we are more blessed in love and Jesus.
You , your husband and your children are in my prayers in Jesus Christ is Lord as long as you need.

Hugs and God bless
pickles
 
Thank you all so much right now every day is harder and harder I'm just trying to do all that I can to show him I care about him and be glorifing to God and every single day my husband has a new hurtful thing to say to me and I'm in a lot of pain I've just started taking the meds so far I'm only getting side affects I'm trying to be hopeful that soon the benefits will out way the problems
 
NicoleH I can relate very much to your marriage situation my wife of 10 left a month ago she went through a hard trial in her life and came back and said I don't love you anymore. This has brought me to my knees and fully surrender every thing to Christ even my wife. I understand this is an attack from the evil one he loves nothing more then to pull a marriage apart because there's so much collateral damage. I am 31 with two children Zoe7 Gabe 4 and am not going to give up on her just give her up to God and that's the best advice I've heard yet and it works.God works best without any help from us he just wants our faith in his ability to change lives. I pray that he breaks there harden hearts and pours in his pure love. And I lift up your husband right now that Jesus will meet him right where he's at and cut right into his heart and restore your marriage. Prayer is a powerful tool God gives us so don't give up and hang in there your not alone!
 
Ps. I started the love dare two days before she said she wanted out and I tell you what it has changed my life completely. it teaches you biblically how to love your spouse when they don't love you in return. You can do this completely on your own.
 
Keep your focus on God and not the devil. Give and tell the devil and his demons that they have no charge in you and your family's life in Jesus Christ's name. Resist the devil and he will flee. When you pray "take no thought of tomorrow because tomorrow is sufficient of itself". Don't worry or doubt God and know that everything is being taking care of for the better. The more we pray the more power we give to God. Give God all of yourself and all your trust and he will bless you in everything you do in life. Do not worry or fear the devil. Give him no thought. The devil only attack those who give him thought. When he gets frustrated he will leave you. Do not say that it's the devil, but say that it's God. God does these things for a reason. Whether it's to get you closer to Christ or get your husband to Christ he does it for a reason. Just because it seems like a bad thing does not mean that it comes from God. He allow these things for a reason. Do not let the devil fill you with his thoughts. All negative thoughts are his. It's like my pastor said, "Open your heart to God and his messages will be known to you". You will hear him talk to you no matter where you go. Make God happy and he will make you EXTREMELY :) happy. Hope this helps you greatly. :) May God bless you Greatly. I will keep you in my prayers.
 
I will pray for your health, marriage and family...
God bless and take care
 
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