I realize a few things lately, but since 2009 when my fiance dad died, his mother his on the phone every single day, we haven't had a break, especially my fiance, has he talks to her everyday. The trouble is she says she's lonely, but we have tried to make her join a club near her to meet other older people, but she will not do it.
My fiance recently had a stroke, and on some days he doesn't feel like talking to his mother, but she still insists. it so selfish. I can't say anything to much, but today my fiance admitted I was right about his mother, she gets into big debates sometimes over the phone, it just so she has someone to talk to that's all. I think she is rather selfish, and wish she would understand. I tried to say today that he doesn't know what to say sometimes, and she said loads of people phone every day. I just wish it was different, I feel very strongly, and Im anxious about it.
Rod complains so much about it, but he won't tell her, and that is the problem. I'm finding it hard enough dealing with my fiance behaviour at times, as he can be quite angry at times with his personality and the stroke. Please pray for this and would like someone's opinion on it. thanks his mother is really obsessed with ringing us, I just wish she had a friend, but she lives her life through us. it's awful.
My fiance recently had a stroke, and on some days he doesn't feel like talking to his mother, but she still insists. it so selfish. I can't say anything to much, but today my fiance admitted I was right about his mother, she gets into big debates sometimes over the phone, it just so she has someone to talk to that's all. I think she is rather selfish, and wish she would understand. I tried to say today that he doesn't know what to say sometimes, and she said loads of people phone every day. I just wish it was different, I feel very strongly, and Im anxious about it.
Rod complains so much about it, but he won't tell her, and that is the problem. I'm finding it hard enough dealing with my fiance behaviour at times, as he can be quite angry at times with his personality and the stroke. Please pray for this and would like someone's opinion on it. thanks his mother is really obsessed with ringing us, I just wish she had a friend, but she lives her life through us. it's awful.
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