My heart is aching...

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Dearest friends in Jesus,

As some of you know my youngest Son, 16yrs old now.
Has aspergers (High functioning autisium).
Some of the kids at school are toying with him.
They are telling him that different girls like him.
Just so he humiliates himself by trying to talk to them.

I have been praying for this to stop.
It has been going on for a week.
Most of the girls have been kind.

Please agree with me in pray for God to move in the hearts of the
people who are finding entertainment in messing with my son.

Thank you, Shekaniah
 
they used to do that to me all the time as a kid, just horrible, I didst have asbergers, but I was shy and awkward and I can understand a lot of how he must feel. this wasn't a little bullying but just constant
 
this song speaks so much truth, I remember when I first heard it I went out in the woods and yelled until l was hoarse,all the anger and the frustration from the constant torment, I have a friend of mine I have known for 35 years, we keep in touch on facebook, to this day she's still tormented by the bullies in her mind, depression, and several attempts at suicide, we go as far back as preschool,sometimes the scars never heal


Mark Wills - Don't Laugh At Me - YouTube
 
this song speaks so much truth, I remember when I first heard it I went out in the woods and yelled until l was hoarse,all the anger and the frustration from the constant torment, I have a friend of mine I have known for 35 years, we keep in touch on facebook, to this day she's still tormented by the bullies in her mind, depression, and several attempts at suicide, we go as far back as preschool,sometimes the scars never heal


Mark Wills - Don't Laugh At Me - YouTube
Good song...
I will pray for you and your friend,
with a loving heart of a Mom.
 
Update...

I talked to the school today.
My son is not alone, it's happening to a lot of kids.
This seems to be a fad...

The school is looking into stopping it for everyone.

So keep up the prayers for all students, and children all over the world...
( Some parents are guilty too)
may their hearts be guarded in Jesus.
 
Awwww honey I bet you want to beat all of them up and I don't blame ya cause I have the urge to also and I am not a fighter but a lover lol. I am so so sorry your baby is going through this. To the girls it just makes those guys look like the biggest dirt bags. I will pray for you and your son to get through this with our Lord's help okay.
 
Awwww honey I bet you want to beat all of them up and I don't blame ya cause I have the urge to also and I am not a fighter but a lover lol. I am so so sorry your baby is going through this. To the girls it just makes those guys look like the biggest dirt bags. I will pray for you and your son to get through this with our Lord's help okay.

Thank you!

I had a talk with him...
I told him unless he hears it from the lips of the girl himself,
Don't belive everything he hears.
Some kids just like to see if they can trick you.

I think he understood the concept.

Kids with Autisium have a hard time with social cues.

It just makes my heart hurt for people who don't have support and love at home.
I know sometimes bullies are hurting inside too,
that is why they pass on their hurt to others.

Your a sweetheart Bekah!
 
DEAREST DEAR SISTER IN CHRIST JESUS I AM PRAYING VERY MUCH ALOT DEEP STRONG AND HARD FOR YOU,AMEN ALLWAYS!!!!!!!!!!..........
 
Hugs shekaniah, been there with my son in the past as well.
Praying for all the care and protection of God to surround him and keep him .

God bless :)
pickles

ps, if problems continue let me know, there are options that can help. :)
 
Thank you all for the beautiful prayers, Love and support.

The school counselor talked to him yesterday too.

Please continue to pray for a heart of understanding and insight for him.

You guys are awesome! Hugs for everyone! Love in Jesus, Shekaniah
 
Praying that God can use this to bring your son a few sincere friendships :)
 
God's word is "a lamp to [our] feet" and "a light to [our] path." This is a prime opportunity for you to teach your son about his desires and what's going on in his heart (what he desires isn't necessarily a bad thing). You've been appointed by God to instruct your son concerning things like this, and your son is commanded to not forsake your teaching (Proverbs 1:8 & 6:20). King Lemuel was instructed by his mother (Proverbs 31:1) and he was a king.
It is a sad reality that some parents don't seize these opportunities, but let them pass. There also exists the grievous fact that some parents are willing to instruct their children in the matters of life, but their children scorn them. "Truly [they] are the people, and with [them] wisdom will die!"

Make the attempt to speak with your child concerning these things, and note that these things are extremely deep, for they concern the heart of man. *Instruct him in the ways of his Creator*

I'm praying for you.
 
Sister Jesus has a very much alot special place for children,as We are His Children,and for parents who love thier children totally deeply,children are Loved and watched over the Lord in a very much aklot way i personally spiritually believe,amen.............
 
my sister shekinanh im very sorry and sadden by the hurts your sweet child of GOD is going through i will keep him in my prayers my daughter is suffering from a mild form of aspbergers she was constanly getting bullied i tried very hard to explain this to the principles n teachers they called her a lier ; she even had to go in the hospital for sucide watch so we decided to have her cyber schooled she has live lessons on the computer classrooms shes doing very well shes in 11th grade ; shes also seeing a counseler from the same school ; i pray things go well for your son if they dont email me ok love you sister in christ
 
I pray for you and your son. I have aspergers - it is not a disability and does not need a cure. Encourage him to enter the computer field, aspies usually do very well in computers. There is a chat room at wrongplanet.net where aspies gather, and he might feel at home there.
 
Lord let all those who speak against him feel condemned, let them see you through him,keep him guarded with your presence
In Jesus name amen
 
I pray for you and your son. I have aspergers - it is not a disability and does not need a cure. Encourage him to enter the computer field, aspies usually do very well in computers. There is a chat room at wrongplanet.net where aspies gather, and he might feel at home there.

Thank you for sharing.
Yes he is very good with computors.
And I have been encouraging him in that direction.

But for now he wants to be a pro-wrestler. :o
He is still young...praying he will change his mind.

God Bless you for encouranging me.
Love in Jesus, Shekaniah