Kevin, I'll pray for you guys. I'm in much the same situation. My wife of 10 years decided that I'm a "great guy" but not the "right guy for her" and told me all of this about 2 weeks ago. We have a child together and have literally built our life together, including buying a house, all of our furniture, our mutual friends, etc etc. I'm feeling sooo heartbroken right now, so I think I can relate. My church family has really been helpful, and gave me some advice. They told me "keep doing what you're doing" (meaning, dont quit my job, dont sell the house, don't make any wild changes). I know that I have been wrong in doing some of the things I did in our relationship, but we are still married (hanging by a thread), so there is always still hope. I have re-dedicated my life to God and I've been in constant prayer since she left. I feel better and closer to God, but I still feel terrible otherwise (I miss my wife!!!!!). Just stay close to God Kevin and always remember that his loving arms are wrapped around you as long as you want them to be. And don't forget to pray for your wife Kevin, she's human and she's subject to temptation just like you and me.
