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JOIE

JOIE

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I'm not saying men are alike, but most men I met only just want to do things which is not appropriate. I know sex is important but I felt so annoyed that they could only talked about their down there, and not something getting to know the person. I just feeling tired and just off the hook and don't communicate after that. Well, I don't regret why I'm single till now, I'm not choosy either, maybe they find me so boring lol, coz my life was just around church, work and home. I'm kinda introverted type. I can get along with others but not much.
 
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JOIE said:
I'm not saying men are alike, but most men I met only just want to do things which is not appropriate. I know sex is important but I felt so annoyed that they could only talked about their down there, and not something getting to know the person. I just feeling tired and just off the hook and don't communicate after that. Well, I don't regret why I'm single till now, I'm not choosy either, maybe they find me so boring lol, coz my life was just around church, work and home. I'm kinda introverted type. I can get along with others but not much.
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Hello Joie , nice to hear your voice . Cheer up and stay strong in your faith . God will provide for u whatever u need , if He doesn't give u something or someone , it's because He knows u don't need it , or them ❤️ . Wait on your Lord , He is with u always , He will give u every good thing ❤️ .
 
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JOIE said:
I'm not saying men are alike, but most men I met only just want to do things which is not appropriate. I know sex is important but I felt so annoyed that they could only talked about their down there, and not something getting to know the person. I just feeling tired and just off the hook and don't communicate after that. Well, I don't regret why I'm single till now, I'm not choosy either, maybe they find me so boring lol, coz my life was just around church, work and home. I'm kinda introverted type. I can get along with others but not much.
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Howdy and welcome to the forum.

On the bright side, at least you're not wasting time with idiots. You have a lot of free time to do what you want, instead of going on dates with people who will never work out. :cool:
 
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Hello Joie , nice to hear your voice . Cheer up and stay strong in your faith . God will provide for u whatever u need , if He doesn't give u something or someone , it's because He knows u don't need it , or them ❤️ . Wait on your Lord , He is with u always , He will give u every good thing ❤️ .
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Thanks🫶
 
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Wasting time with idiots...the bane of my life lol
It's why I spend time here, with the smart people.

Just the other day, a guy who I thought was my friend asked if he could kiss me, and I was thinking like a chaste peck on the cheek or something. Well it wasn't really like that.
 
JOIE said:
I'm not saying men are alike, but most men I met only just want to do things which is not appropriate. I know sex is important but I felt so annoyed that they could only talked about their down there, and not something getting to know the person. I just feeling tired and just off the hook and don't communicate after that. Well, I don't regret why I'm single till now, I'm not choosy either, maybe they find me so boring lol, coz my life was just around church, work and home. I'm kinda introverted type. I can get along with others but not much.
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Yeah its sometimes too gross. how can one talk like that and 🤫some Christian men too
 
Well that’s why finding the best fruit takes time and patience unfortunately. Stand firm on your beliefs and make him not doubt your firmness. If a man thinks they have some ground to play they will. You will find the right one. In the right place in the right time. God makes us wait sometimes. So when we do get that person. We can appreciate it more and not doubt them ourselves. In a way say thankyou god for not giving me someone mediocre. Say thankyou lord for making me wait and be ready for that man. Sometimes we have our own work to do first. God works his miracles when the time is right. I hope the best for you.:)
 
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