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Pray for guidance from the holy spirit never seek confidence from Man(humans) .
 
It's a difficult and delicate matter. Anyone offering advice might want to know the nature of the relationship. Are you married to each other? Are the two of you Christians? If you aren't married, have you been engaging in sexual activity? These are very personal questions, but you're asking advice on a very personal matter.
 
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how to get out of a very clingy unbeliever partner. help![/QUOT


2Co 6:14 Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers; for what fellowship does righteousness have with lawlessness? And what partnership does light have with darkness?

Of course if you are not right with God then professing Christianity sees nothing wrong with these situations.

Get right with God first, then you will be able to see why the saints of God never become yoked with unbelieves!

Seek those things which are above!

Col 3:1 If then you were raised with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ is sitting at the right hand of God.
Col 3:2 Be mindful of things above, not on things on the earth.
Col 3:3 For you died, and your life has been hidden with Christ in God.
These powerful verses above really sum up what is required of you to walk a pure and holy life before God!
But as with all the powerful scriptures, they come with a strong warning and something we must do!
Now IF you were truly raised with Christ in newness of life that comes from the truly repented and crucified life, you will be seeking the things which are from above! The things that please the Lord, who is sitting at the right hand of God!
It also warns to be mindful of thing’s above, which is purity, sincerity and love, and not on the things of this world, as many who profess Christ have it backwards. They love the things of the earth or world more than crucifying their flesh with Christ, and walking the narrow road that leads to life!
Now the most powerful warning so far is the last verse that says you died! Died to what?
You died to sin, worldliness, and rebellion to God, having truly repented (sin stops) and now your new life is free from the corrupting influence of the world and sin, and now hidden with Christ in God!
This death must occur through the process of godly sorrow which produces repentance leading to salvation, if its real, and from the heart, which will show proof such as a clearing of all wrong doing, amending you ways if necessary, a strong fear of God and His wrath to come, plus a vehement desire to cast out of doors all defilement and attachment’s to the world and its vain ways!
This is what real repentance produces in the humble, and obedient soul, who has yielded to the powerful conviction of the spirit of God, who abounds around the whole world, convicting the whole world of sin, righteousness, and judgment, not asking the lost sinner to just accept, believe, and confess in something that never happened!
1Jn 5:4 For everything that has been born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that overcomes the world, our faith. (Obedience to the truth)
Tommy



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brick said:
how to get out of a very clingy unbeliever partner. help!
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be firm and tell him its over. Don't offer to be friends or to keep in contact. change your phone number and don't give him it. try to avoid all the places you went to together. spend more time at church. since he is an unbeliever it is unlikely he will show up there.

if he becomes the stalker type, document his harassment and get a restraining order.

if necessary get your dad, brothers, or male friends to talk to him about leaving you alone.

always Pray and ask God for protection and guidance.
 
Brick, Dashadow is right, that this subject is very tricky. If you are single, then you do need to leave the relationship, but if you are married, then my advice is so much different. You said the man is clingy, I'm just assuming he hasn't become abusive. If you are married, then you need to stay married, as the Bible does say that those who are married to unsaved partners can potentially lead them to Christ. However, if he is abusive, then what you may have to do is just go to a shelter and seek help from others.

If you are not married to the man, then what Ariel has said is the best advice that is able to give.
 
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