need help with relationship

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hello ! i am a 16 year old that has been in a relationship for almost 3 years now. He treats me great and treats me like a lady but lately i have been doubtful. he claims to be a christian but he doesn't live the life. i try to but i give into temptation so easily which is my bigger flaw. i feel as if i cant be with him because i need someone who will help me and guide me to a better, greater christian life. whenever he prays or does things like that (which is barely) it makes me feel weird and uncomfortable because i don't imagine him that way. i want someone to guide me and help me with my christian lifestyle and i feel that i have concluded that he is not the one to help me with that. i need help on figuring out whether i should keep this relationship going or not. i don't want to end up marrying someone who have a long relationship with someone that is not in Gods will to do. i don't want to make a mistake. i have prayed constantly about this because i have felt doubtful many times before but i have never felt anything. i haven't felt like i have gotten in answer or any signs. i really want someone to talk to and help me. all im asking for is for guidance. a mentor. someone i can talk to about this ans someone to help me. i cant do this on my own and im so confused and my head is all over the place. ive said i love him. but sometimes i just dont know. i need help. please. anybody
 
Plse how are you in Christ,
I am Pst. Phestus and the way I have read your comment, let me assure you that I can offer a great help spiritually in amicably.
 
you're young you do not need too have a boyfriend go out live your life like a good Christian and see the world when the time is right you will find the right man but 16 is too young to make up your mind about boys break up with him and live like a good Christian