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jp811
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Here's the situation:
Last week I was offered a job at another company. My current employer made me a counter offer. I did not give myself enough time to think my decision over, and I ended up accepting my current employer's counter offer, but I almost instantly regretted it.
I work in IT. We use a certain specific set of tools at my company that I like well enough, but are not nearly so common as certain other tools. This other job would've given me work experience on more mainstream tools that I need. I am afraid that I'm in very real danger of getting stuck where I am without options to go elsewhere if I stay too long.
The company that offered me the position still seems open to accepting me, but I feel like I would be going back on my word with my current employer. I do not wish to leave on bad terms.
The fear and anxiety of either choice (the unknown if I go, fear of being stuck if I stay) is overwhelming me. I desperately need for God to guide me into the right decision, and give me the strength to deal with it, but I don't know what to do.
I'm hurting so much right now, and I desperately wish I could just re-do the last week.
Last week I was offered a job at another company. My current employer made me a counter offer. I did not give myself enough time to think my decision over, and I ended up accepting my current employer's counter offer, but I almost instantly regretted it.
I work in IT. We use a certain specific set of tools at my company that I like well enough, but are not nearly so common as certain other tools. This other job would've given me work experience on more mainstream tools that I need. I am afraid that I'm in very real danger of getting stuck where I am without options to go elsewhere if I stay too long.
The company that offered me the position still seems open to accepting me, but I feel like I would be going back on my word with my current employer. I do not wish to leave on bad terms.
The fear and anxiety of either choice (the unknown if I go, fear of being stuck if I stay) is overwhelming me. I desperately need for God to guide me into the right decision, and give me the strength to deal with it, but I don't know what to do.
I'm hurting so much right now, and I desperately wish I could just re-do the last week.
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