Need prayer and advise

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I was in a 3 year relationship and I just had a baby she is 3 months old and when I found out I was pregnant with my daughter the father bailed and never looked back until I recently served him with custody papers, He has never see her. I had to move to another state to be with my family for help now we are going to court in the state I am living now and its been so hard. The father of my daughter won't even speak to me. He is not a christian and I am. I have prayed everyday for his salvation. I know only God can fix this, if its even fixable. I just really am lost to what direction to go. I left my career and life to raise this baby alone and I am just scared for my future. Its hard be a single mom even harder not having the fathers help. I really need prayer and advise on if I should try to mend this or just move on with my life.
 
Don't doubt. God has made this universe. He made you and he made him. God will fix this. Don't listen to doubt. Tell the doubt about your God. Trust the hand who holds you more than you holding on to him. It will get better. :-)
 
I will be praying for you!! Pray about it!! He will answer. God Bless you! :)
 
I know that God is intimately involved with your entire situation. He knows everything that you are going through, He knows everything that has happened, and everything that will happen. He is a God of love and a God of justice. Just watch as He will show Himself faithful and provide for you. He is there for you and He always will be. Know that He works out all situations for the good of those who love Him. And He loves the father of your baby with a great love, continue to pray that His love would surround this man and invade his heart and that his heart would be softened because of it.
 
Hugs, praying for you, your daughter and all you need, praying also for your daughter's father's salvation.
Praying also in Jesus's name for all streangth, comfort and the love of Jesus to surround you.

God bless
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Praying that you will have peace, that you will grow in your love and devotion to the King and turn your life and your face to Him in all ways. That you will align your life under His authority and as you do, your path will become clear, your life will become a living testimony to the forgiveness and the power of a life now spent in devotion to Him. I pray you will be patient and know that all things are in His timing. I pray that this situation will cause your family to press in around you and your baby, in loving support and kindness and through all things, you will give glory to God and reap the promises He has to bless you. I pray that you will walk out in the promises God wants to give to you His precious daughter. I pray that in all ways you will live your life for Him, in obedience and in love, forgiveness and hope. God Bless you, <><
 
cherylp said:
I was in a 3 year relationship and I just had a baby she is 3 months old and when I found out I was pregnant with my daughter the father bailed and never looked back until I recently served him with custody papers, He has never see her. I had to move to another state to be with my family for help now we are going to court in the state I am living now and its been so hard. The father of my daughter won't even speak to me. He is not a christian and I am. I have prayed everyday for his salvation. I know only God can fix this, if its even fixable. I just really am lost to what direction to go. I left my career and life to raise this baby alone and I am just scared for my future. Its hard be a single mom even harder not having the fathers help. I really need prayer and advise on if I should try to mend this or just move on with my life.
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I'm glad you came here. :)
I am a single mother as well. The father has never truly been supportive of our son, and is currently in jail(for who knows what. With him there is no telling)
First things first.... It seems you have talked to God about your problems, and you have asked for salvation. Girl, you already have that! You just "slipped up" as we all do. If you have asked for forgiveness then you have been forgiven. Just learn to forgive yourself.
I also know how hard it is to raise a baby. My son is 11 now it is a challenge! Luckily I have wonderful support from my family, and friends. Looks like you have family support too which is awesome!
Whatever you do don't be scared. God is with you. It may seem hard to believe at times, but he is there. Your daughter is a blessing, and your priority is to care for her.
If the father isn't around then move on. You cannot make him be part of her life. Believe it or not it may be better he is not. I know my sons father being absent is more a blessing than a curse.
Don't be afraid to ask for help. Don't be afraid to accept it when offered. Put God first, and have faith he will guide you. Look toward the future, and give your daughter the best life possible.

If you ever need to talk feel free to message me.
 
Cherylp, you know this is fixable because, like you said 'only God can fix this'. Every child deserves to have both father and mother in his/her life; so, it's good that this case is now legal. God can mend your relationship with the father of your child, keep asking God to touch his heart.
 
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