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Has anyone else ever struggled with not feeling loved?
My wife says she loves me but her actions say otherwise. We get along well but she doesn't seem to hear me when I tell her the things that are the most important to me. She tries to please me by doing things that she thinks I will like but at the same time she never does some of the things that she knows are important to me.
By negating my feelings and wishes it makes me feel unimportant and unloved. These are not gross things or weird things.
Is it unreasonable for me to want to feel like my wishes count for something?
Am I just being selfish?
My wife says she loves me but her actions say otherwise. We get along well but she doesn't seem to hear me when I tell her the things that are the most important to me. She tries to please me by doing things that she thinks I will like but at the same time she never does some of the things that she knows are important to me.
By negating my feelings and wishes it makes me feel unimportant and unloved. These are not gross things or weird things.
Is it unreasonable for me to want to feel like my wishes count for something?
Am I just being selfish?