Good morning to all,
I need some advice on how to move forward with my daughter. She's been caught lying again and I don't know what to do.
She has been on "holiday" for most of May but in fact she quit her job. My wife and I have asked her a few times did she still have a job and she said yes. I sent a Whatsapp message on our family group two days ago asking what shift she would be working so I could try to drop her off if it wasn't too late. She replied she would catch the bus and started in June.
I had a feeling she had left her job, but all was confirmed Monday evening. My wife confirmed she no longer had a job etc.
She's put my son and his girlfriend in an impossible situation for the past month and my wife the past couple of days since she found out. This isn't the first time she has done this. Lying does come too easy to her, I did think she had grown up a bit and sorted herself out, but I am wrong.
Her brother, his girlfriend and my wife have moved on, but I can't. She's not sorry and she doesn't think she's done anything wrong. I've told my wife I can't forgive her and can't move forward, and I know this is going to cause issues with her and my wife. But she has taken away my trust and it doesnt look like she realises what she's done. I want to make it clear her leaving her job isnt the issue but it's the lies and the situation she put us all in I can't get past. My wife wants to make amends and I can't do it.
I've had a look in the Bible about lying and I didn't know it's treated more serious than I thought.
If anyone can give me advice on how to move forward, Now I can't see a happy conclusion.
I need some advice on how to move forward with my daughter. She's been caught lying again and I don't know what to do.
She has been on "holiday" for most of May but in fact she quit her job. My wife and I have asked her a few times did she still have a job and she said yes. I sent a Whatsapp message on our family group two days ago asking what shift she would be working so I could try to drop her off if it wasn't too late. She replied she would catch the bus and started in June.
I had a feeling she had left her job, but all was confirmed Monday evening. My wife confirmed she no longer had a job etc.
She's put my son and his girlfriend in an impossible situation for the past month and my wife the past couple of days since she found out. This isn't the first time she has done this. Lying does come too easy to her, I did think she had grown up a bit and sorted herself out, but I am wrong.
Her brother, his girlfriend and my wife have moved on, but I can't. She's not sorry and she doesn't think she's done anything wrong. I've told my wife I can't forgive her and can't move forward, and I know this is going to cause issues with her and my wife. But she has taken away my trust and it doesnt look like she realises what she's done. I want to make it clear her leaving her job isnt the issue but it's the lies and the situation she put us all in I can't get past. My wife wants to make amends and I can't do it.
I've had a look in the Bible about lying and I didn't know it's treated more serious than I thought.
If anyone can give me advice on how to move forward, Now I can't see a happy conclusion.
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