old flame

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ok heres my situation. I USED to date this guy and at the time we were both "Christians" in the sense that we went to church and believed in God but we were REALLY luke warm ppl. so we ended up doing lots of things we shouldn't. we were together like 2 years and though it was kinda a high school fling we're about the age to start looking for a real relationship that could lead to marriage and He wants to get back with me but i'm not really sure if I should. Idk if i'd be compromising myself simply cause i don't have anyone else in my life right now that could possibly be my future husband and cause i'm already really comfortable with him or if hes actually the right guy for me. AND after being "not together" for two years hes kinda ready for the ok of "lets get back together" or "can i move on" and idk what to say?

any advice?
 
I'm not sure. I thought i was in love with him. but we all know how teenagers THINK their in love and a few months later they can't stand that person.

I still have feelings for him and we're really close friends but idk if its love or if its a friendly love with a craving for his attention.

plus i feel like i could come to love him. but there are little things seem little now that could be a problem later.

like he wants to have his own kids. . . i wanna adopt. stuff like that.