Opposite gender

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Hello.
I have been saved for a few months now, and I am in LOVE with Jesus.
But I have this problem.
I have been with this girl (sorta) for over a year now. She's the one that brought me to the realization.
We're not officially "dating" we just know that we are together, and that God has brought us together.
We believe God wants to use our musical talents to glorify His name.
But we have this problem.
With lust.
We are both absolute Jesus freaks, but we have been drawn into the belief that teens to be "in a relationship" have to do all these terrible things. We haven't had sex, we are waiting until marriage, but we do things at the borderline.
We need help.
We both know it's happening, while it's happening.
But when we go home, we both feel awful.
But then the next day it happens again.
I don't know what is wrong with me.
I've sought help and deliverance, but no results.
I know we need to control ourselves.
We know that we are going to do these bad things, but afterwards we get in a big discussion about how we have to stop and turn from it and be clean.
But it doesn't happen.
We need help.
We need advice.
 
Temptation is a thing that everyone of us face, but the cool thing about it is that it can be overcomed. Jesus is the ultimate example, when He was in the wilderness,no matter how satan tried, Jesus counteracted his efforts with the Word. By you admitting to your temptation you are on the right track to overcoming..So that's a plus! my advice,through my experience, is maybe to spend less alone time together. Or maybe hangout more as a group thing. The choice is ultimately yours. But with you asking for advice shows that you are already geared towards the right direction!
hope this helps :)
 
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