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I've been seeing the son of my mums friend. Both our mums are friends and have been for a number of years. Although we have known each other for a number of years too we bare spoke and only said hello and a kiss on the cheek (cultural thing).
[FONT=Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif]We both have a bad past I'm a divorcee with a toddler and he's an ex alcoholic and drug user (Went to a Christian rehab for 2 years and has been clean for 3 years). We've both however changed, and now focus on our Christian faith being obedient towards the Lord. We both work, have cars, I live at home with my parents and he rents a room at a relatives. [/FONT]
The past couple of months, we've been getting to know each other and we go out, spend a lot of time together and what not and both generally want to be with each but are taking as it comes, which is nice.
[FONT=Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif]The problem we both have is our mums, who to be honest are both very judgemental, even though they too are Christians. I know his mum won't accept me because I have a child and my mum won't accept him because he's an ex alcoholic and drug.user. I'm 26 and he's 30 and it's so hard being the age we are and having to sneak around and tell lies. His mum saw us together at church on Sunday and mentioned to his sister in law what was going on with us and how we looked like we have known each other for years. We don't talk at church and Sunday just gone literally just smiled at each other. [/FONT]
We said that we would continue to see other because we really like each other. We also said we prayed for a spouse and that by us being together felt like God brought us together for a reason. The only problem we said is when we get too attached and grow deep feelings what are we going to do? Help Please!!
[FONT=Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif]We both have a bad past I'm a divorcee with a toddler and he's an ex alcoholic and drug user (Went to a Christian rehab for 2 years and has been clean for 3 years). We've both however changed, and now focus on our Christian faith being obedient towards the Lord. We both work, have cars, I live at home with my parents and he rents a room at a relatives. [/FONT]
The past couple of months, we've been getting to know each other and we go out, spend a lot of time together and what not and both generally want to be with each but are taking as it comes, which is nice.
[FONT=Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif]The problem we both have is our mums, who to be honest are both very judgemental, even though they too are Christians. I know his mum won't accept me because I have a child and my mum won't accept him because he's an ex alcoholic and drug.user. I'm 26 and he's 30 and it's so hard being the age we are and having to sneak around and tell lies. His mum saw us together at church on Sunday and mentioned to his sister in law what was going on with us and how we looked like we have known each other for years. We don't talk at church and Sunday just gone literally just smiled at each other. [/FONT]
We said that we would continue to see other because we really like each other. We also said we prayed for a spouse and that by us being together felt like God brought us together for a reason. The only problem we said is when we get too attached and grow deep feelings what are we going to do? Help Please!!