heydrewbert,The sound doctrine you seek is before your own eyes.The question is not in finding it,but rather as the Word himself speaks in the bible to study to show yourself approved a workman unto the Lord!( 2 Tim 2:15) This is not a rebuke brother!!
I know for many years I myself looked to seek the Lord through others who were suppose to know the Word themselves! What they knew is what they looked to know for themselves creating a most self righteous doctrine to which,if any would question were considered an enemy of the devil himself. POINT!!!
The only real teacher is the one who wrote the teaching!( 1 John 2:27) and what we look for others from, is only to confirm what our Lord said.he said what he meant, and meant what he said.With this mindset no confusion can enter our mindset. When others look to twist his word to mean what they wish it to,anyone can become depressed!
Another words brother it is our turn to become accountable,and not look as I did for so many years for excuses not to follow! If we are confused you know one thing for certain!!!( 1 Cor 14:33!!!)
The accountable believers stays accountable to the Word,not what man or woman wants to make from the Word! I know Holy Spirit teaches! I know Holy Spirit confirms,and I know it takes our own time to find this out!( psalm 25:5) The question is how long we are willing to both wait and remain in school!( Isaiah 40:28-31!!) I have been in the classroom for over 30 years brother,I am not late,and I do not skip either!! LOL
And this is why the Lord grants me his wisdom daily!( 1 Cor 1:30-31!) His promise is for all who believe,and to stay established in this belief we must stay accountable to him! Anger is fine,as long as anger motivates us to do something about the problem we are having! Drawing near to the Lord is the proper mindset,I had to kick my flesh more then once upon this doctrine brother!( 1 Cor 9:23-27!!) verse 27!
Have both purpose now in word and in deed! Next study hard after Eph 3:17-21!! and last but sure not least! Know that before anyone else can ever have value to you in there own life,you must understand the value you have for others! So that you always have something to give,not just receive!( Acts 20:35!!) this is not the time to feel sorry for oneself,it is time to get up, get mad, and do something about it! Anger is not a sin,when anger is set upon moving forward as Paul did in Christ Jesus!!( Phil 3:12-14!!) Blessing bro!