Wow, i'm seeing great opinions here!! Why don't you want any kids?>>>>NoTearsShed I love the fact that u want to adopt though. I want to as well....and now nobody in my family knows that only you guys!!
A couple good reasons, it started off with a phobia i have...
Then i started thinking about it more & well now its 4 main reasons,
3 being i dont want to bring a child in the world with all the things going on now, look at all these stupid young kids having babies at such a young age, 8 year olds having sex...thats just nasty, the youngest kids having babies are 10 at least that has been seen at this hospital near were i live.
Now all these teenagers want to do is shoot with guns, I mean honestly are you serious! Use your hands if you want to fight, yes fighting is bad but its better to fight with fists instead of with guns & knifes.
Theres many slutty girls were i live(the city not my house)... hard to find true friends....
Now its really tempting to sin, & especially for teens to depart from God.
The other one because hardly anyone adopts kids, & when they do get adopted they are ages babies- like 10 & the ones thatt are 13-17 dont really get adopted as much as younger kids...
Maybe God put it in me to have that phobia so i would be able to adopt some kids ages 13-17 so i can be able to tell them about God =) & bring them closer to God =D
I wont say what the phobia is but in a way when i look at it that way, its a thing that God can use to remind me what im doing is bad & the first reason why i dint want to have kids.
You know God has marvelous ways of doing things to help one another or to save someone =)
I want to preach the world of God around the world or different countries when i get older so if i have a kid i would have to take him or her with me all around the world OR leave them at someones house which would not be fair to them & they might feel like they are not loved.
Would not be fair for them to be growing up everywere & have to make new friends every month or year.
Now some teenagers 13-17 dream of traveling places so they would be able to come & also get closer to God =)
If you really think about it its like im meant to adopt teenagers or be a foster home for them or something =)
I just noticed the things seem to fit in =D
Makes me happy to know God is using me to help others