Peaceful Divorce

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It's been about a little over a week since I told my husband I was filing for divorce. I felt confident in the lords leading when I did this but still wanted more and more confirmation. After having to hang up on him because he wouldn't stop yelling at me, he called me back to discuss his property. I've been with him for 8 yrs and 15 minutes after he finds out he's getting divorced all he's concerned about are his movies. I did not fight him on them but he is insisting that he comes to my apt to get them. When I said Id rather take them elsewhere he threatened to make things difficult. I did not respond. There is no way I will let him in my apt even accompanied. My 130lbs is not match for his 400lbs and he has been violent in the past. He is also unpredictable and impulsive.
We don't have anything really. We have a couple pieces of furniture and some appliances, but I'm afraid he's going to make a scene if I don't do exactly what he says. I will not allow him to force me to do anything, but I'm worried about what he might do.
I'm also very angry. I have always been gentle and kind to him and yet he's calling me rude and condescending because I'm non-reactive. As an illustration, I see myself slapping him upside the head saying, "******, can't you see that I'm worth it?". The lord has done a lot in me about self-worth, but I feel like I may be trying to prove my worth to him somehow.
 
Praying. If he threatens to come over anyway, maybe call the police, or at least friends that can be around to make sure he behaves.
 
I'll call the police if necessary. I don't even want him around friends. This is my space and I don't want him in it.
I made my decision to divide all property via email so as to keep a record if he does try to make good on his threats. I pray he receives it well.
 
*hugs*

praying it resolves fast so that you can focus on better things
 
praying very much listen too counsel have men friends or family members with you at all times if and when he comes over,women have been killed cause of not having guy or police protection get a protection from abuse order the police can help you with this the wrost police call the most deadly dangerous 1 is "Domsetic Violence"
i do say say this to scare you but to protect you i will be praying keep us informed hereso we know that you are safe .o.k. amen.
 
I will be safe. I have plenty of people of people to turn to who know exactly what's up. The only way he's coming over is if he breaks in.
 
Jordache don't be slapping him upside the head even if he deserves it. I just got rear ended and was honest and came here for support but I feel most on here are just concerned with themselves and don't give diddly squat about someone else's pain.

I do not have a criminal record and never been charged in my life but because I took a 16 year old kid by the arm to see what damage he did to my brand new car I am now being charged with assault and am going to be finger printed tomorrow and will have to pay for a lawyer. So how do you like that???

If this could happen to me and I basically live a quiet life minding my own business then what do you think this evil man will do to you if you lose it and slap him???

Don't trust anyone. This world is totally evil and corrupt and so are most people in it including some people who profess to be Christians but are only fair weather Christians and not the real thing.
 
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many real christians are here and all over this planet.
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I presume you were responding to me? If not then ignore this message.

By the way I would like to know why it is okay for someone to publicly admit they want to slap someone upside the head yet I have been falsely accused and as big as this place is full of "real Christians" I have only had 2 people pray for me?

That is pathetic as far as I am concerned.

Like I said you don't know what it is like unless you have been through it.

The Devil as usual is out to destroy me but who cares, right???

I had a baby in the car for heavens sake and I never assaulted the guy. You can just touch someone on the shoulder and they can charge you with assault. That is how evil and corrupt the world is getting. Yet some kid can drive right into your car and not take any responsibility and that is okay???

What a bunch of baloney!
 
You don't have to prove anything, it's a given. My Mom always told me to follow my first mind, so I'm telling you the same thing. Call it instinct, intuition, or God speak, just follow it. Stay safe, and I'll keep you in my prayers.
Nette
 
Hugs Jordache, praying in Jesus's name, for the peace and protection you need.
Remember always, you were not born to be loved for what you do, that in Jesus, you were born because you were already loved! :)

God bless
pickles
 
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