Please pray for me as I go through an important stage in my life.

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ZoomerX

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I'm looking for prayer as i decide what to do with my life in the future. As a 24 year old male, i need prayer so i can stop committing sexual sin (mentally, I'm still a virgin, but Jesus says looking is all it takes), and i would love prayer for direction, and to make the right decision for a job or whether to apply for a job as a truck driver (CDL) or a state trooper in Utah (or Colorado).

I'd ask y'all to pray to God to give me faith, security and hope in what is increasingly an evil world, especially if i decide to join the highway patrol. I ask for grace from God and Salvation, in case something bad happens to me in either Job, as both trucking and policing are dangerous, with trucking actually being more likely to risk injury and death over policing.

I want prayer for guide-ness to leave my parents' house for the first time ever in my life, and to find a place of my own, with little money. Pray to help me find a car, and get a loan.

And Pray for me to find a wife who will love me, care about me, and raise a family with me. Give me a great sex life, beautiful children, and strong faith. This is what i want.

And finally, pray for me to go to heaven, and that God won't be angry about anything I've done. Pray that Jesus will accept me and not reject me, and to give me more faith, boldness, and no fear.

That's all, Im sorry if this feels a little "scripted" but this is what i feel needs to be said/done.

Thanks...
 
As a former whoremonger, and fornicator I can tell you, as you transform through Christ, you will lose the sin of lust, you'll still notice attractive women, you just won't care to think about former fleshly fornication or related thoughts. Just keep praying to Christ, he answers everything to his timing.
 
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'Pray to understand "wanting" things are often one's natural mindset.
I hope you learn to pray for things that are "needed" in your life, and to know
God is surely one of the "needs" to hopefully help you to focus on what is at hand.

'I pray you choose wisely and that circumstances arise to point you in
the right direction, whatever that may be.
'Amen'

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I'm looking for prayer as i decide what to do with my life in the future. As a 24 year old male, i need prayer so i can stop committing sexual sin (mentally, I'm still a virgin, but Jesus says looking is all it takes), and i would love prayer for direction, and to make the right decision for a job or whether to apply for a job as a truck driver (CDL) or a state trooper in Utah (or Colorado).

I'd ask y'all to pray to God to give me faith, security and hope in what is increasingly an evil world, especially if i decide to join the highway patrol. I ask for grace from God and Salvation, in case something bad happens to me in either Job, as both trucking and policing are dangerous, with trucking actually being more likely to risk injury and death over policing.

I want prayer for guide-ness to leave my parents' house for the first time ever in my life, and to find a place of my own, with little money. Pray to help me find a car, and get a loan.

And Pray for me to find a wife who will love me, care about me, and raise a family with me. Give me a great sex life, beautiful children, and strong faith. This is what i want.

And finally, pray for me to go to heaven, and that God won't be angry about anything I've done. Pray that Jesus will accept me and not reject me, and to give me more faith, boldness, and no fear.

That's all, Im sorry if this feels a little "scripted" but this is what i feel needs to be said/done.

Thanks...

Praying for you Zoomer. These are fine things to pray for and I pray God leads you down the path He has intended for you with the right partner who shares your love for the Lord, in Jesus' name, amen.
 
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Blessings and prayers sweetheart, your intro seems more positive, which is lovely to see. Think this site might interest you, Ryan seems a really lovely, smart, very spiritual guy: https://graceprovoked.org/

He's down to earth and realistic too, posting a link to a couple of his articles i hope might resonate with you:

Stop Looking Inwardly to Determine if You're Saved: https://graceprovoked.org/index.php...looking-inwardly-to-determine-if-you-re-saved

Even If Your Heart Condemns You: https://graceprovoked.org/index.php/theological-studies/335-even-if-your-heart-condemns-you

God's blessings and all that's good for now 🤗
 
Welp, looks like trucking will be put on hold... Have to have a license for at least 1 year, or more.

My life has just been nothing but set back after set back. I do not know why I deserve this.

I turn 18 right during COVID 19...a few years a family member passes away...

Dog dies.

Had to constantly renew my driving permit, even retaking the written test.

Until finally things improve a little, with me getting a full license at a driving school... Which opens up some doors for me (at least that's what I thought)

Only to be slammed again by trucking companies saying they can't hire me because of this.

I can't win in this world 🤦‍♂️

I don't know what God even wants me to do

I don't know what to do at this point.

And Law enforcement (if I were to apply) takes up to 6 months before they'll even call someone back for employment 🤷‍♂️
 
Welp, looks like trucking will be put on hold... Have to have a license for at least 1 year, or more.

My life has just been nothing but set back after set back. I do not know why I deserve this.

I turn 18 right during COVID 19...a few years a family member passes away...

Dog dies.

Had to constantly renew my driving permit, even retaking the written test.

Until finally things improve a little, with me getting a full license at a driving school... Which opens up some doors for me (at least that's what I thought)

Only to be slammed again by trucking companies saying they can't hire me because of this.

I can't win in this world 🤦‍♂️

I don't know what God even wants me to do

I don't know what to do at this point.

And Law enforcement (if I were to apply) takes up to 6 months before they'll even call someone back for employment 🤷‍♂️

Praying for you, Zoomer... These are tough knocks of life and more will be dished out along with the blessings that accompany them and give us things to be glad about. These knocks happen, if you need to wait for your career path, then do so. Fill in the time gaining knowledge and experience before the real thing comes along. Work at something that pays the bills in the meantime until the right, awaited time comes. Speak to anyone older than you. This is how we all got ahead.
Waiting for God's time brings it's own blessings and will see you shine. Yoke yourself to God, He's in on this and will work it for your good.
 
Welp, looks like trucking will be put on hold... Have to have a license for at least 1 year, or more.

My life has just been nothing but set back after set back. I do not know why I deserve this.

I turn 18 right during COVID 19...a few years a family member passes away...

Dog dies.

Had to constantly renew my driving permit, even retaking the written test.

Until finally things improve a little, with me getting a full license at a driving school... Which opens up some doors for me (at least that's what I thought)

Only to be slammed again by trucking companies saying they can't hire me because of this.

I can't win in this world 🤦‍♂️

I don't know what God even wants me to do

I don't know what to do at this point.

And Law enforcement (if I were to apply) takes up to 6 months before they'll even call someone back for employment 🤷‍♂️
God's blessings and hugs ZoomerX but think we're all going to be in the pooh soon. I live in a very middle class area but often have to help out families now, who are literally financially squeezed until the pips squeak. Pretty certain these are the end times, which could well go on for decades at least and that's why things are so tough for you.

Sadly, i think this is just the beginning of the pangs of distress, things will be incredibly tough for all soon. You're so young but you're smart too and i'm certain the Lord wants you to hang in there and make His heart glad. This Christian news site on Substack is great for its spiritual perspective on current events:

 
God's blessings and hugs ZoomerX but think we're all going to be in the pooh soon. I live in a very middle class area but often have to help out families now, who are literally financially squeezed until the pips squeak. Pretty certain these are the end times, which could well go on for decades at least and that's why things are so tough for you.

Sadly, i think this is just the beginning of the pangs of distress, things will be incredibly tough for all soon. You're so young but you're smart too and i'm certain the Lord wants you to hang in there and make His heart glad. This Christian news site on Substack is great for its spiritual perspective on current events:

You're probably right. Maybe I should accept it wasn't meant for me to live a life on this earth.