:( Plz Pray for Me.

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I can't stop crying. :( Last night I confronted my guy on a website that was looking up local women naked photos that want to meet for hook up sex I found on his computer so I confronted Him on it and things turned physical. For the first time I know what it means when people say they were hit so hard they see stars. I need prayers. My emotions are crazy all over the place. He denied (lying of course) everything.
What makes a guy react in violence when he is caught? Please let the Lord lead your hearts on what to pray because I am so not even knowing what to ask you to pray about. I just know I need prayers. Thanks guys & gals.
 
Very sorry to hear that. Hopefully things get better for you.
 
THIS DECISION WILL ONLY COME FROM YOU, AS THE LORD LEADS. THERE IS A BONDAGE THAT ONLY CHRIST WILL BE ABLE TO BREAK AND DELIVER HIM FROM. I WOULD WANT YOU TO HAVE A GUY HUSBAND THAT WILL LOVE YOU SISTER, AS JESUS LOVES THE CHURCH, AND GAVE HIMSELF FOR HER. FIRST THING YOU SHOULD DO IS FORGIVE HIM, AND PRAY FOR HIM, TRUST GOD TO CHANGE HIS HEART, AND TRUST THE LORD HE SPEAKS THROUGH THE HOLY SPIRIT ON WHAT TO DO. NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE WITH GOD, AND I BELIEVE HE COULD CHANGE HIM, BUT HOOKING UP WITH OTHERS, YOU TAKE A CHANCE OF STDS, EVEN THROUGH MOUTHY CONTACT, I BELIEVE THIS COULD TURN AROUND, BUT THEN AGAIN, WHAT WE WANT, MAY NOT BE GOD'S WILL, BUT OUR OWN. HE NEEDS PRAYER. FATHER BREAK THIS TEMPTATION FROM HIM, SAVE HIM, DELIVER HIM FROM EVIL. IN JESUS NAME. AMEN
 
I will pray for you tonight. No one needs to be put through that in this life sister :(
 
Bekah, you need to get away from him. I know it's not what you wanted to hear, but it's true. You can still love him, but from a distance. How bad do things need to get? :( Please don't let it get any worse. We just don't want to see you get hurt, physically OR emotionally. :'-(
 
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Thank you popclick, and I do need to hear it and I agree, this is NOT what love is. And thank you godismystrength and jkaklya and thank you rama I really appreciate the advice and the prayers.
 
Bekah, I know it is hard to hear this, but you do need to walk away from him for now.
Forgive him and trust God to work on his heart and healing, for as when you stay after he does this, it simply is giving aproval for these injuries to continue.
My hubby's job brings him into contact alot with this, and it will not get better, only worse untill he gets the help he needs.
It breaks my heart for you to be hurt, simply because, I like many here love you so much in Jesus, and this love would never try to injure you, this perfect love only seeks to bring you all good things.
Ill be praying for you, to have the streangth and wisdom to make the good choices.
Praying also for your man, that Jesus will move the mountian in him to bring healing.

Holding you with my heart in Jesus.
God bless
pickles
 
Oh, Beks! :(

I know the situation is complicated.
I also know (cuz our nephew and his wife are cops)
that domestic disturbance calls do NOT tend to get better.

There IS a battered women's shelter near you, and they WILL help you, dearest!
This is not the first time he laid a hand on you in anger, right? :(
Jason (our nephew) says this will increase until and unless you do something.
Once a man allows himself to do this, it becomes easier and easier.
(let alone the sexual behavior!)

RUN (do not walk) away from Tom for now.
He has shown you in many ways he's not the guy for you, beloved friend.
Don't let the fact it may be better tomorrow deceive you, Rebecca, please don't do that.
I seriously don't want to read about you in the news. ♥

praying.
love you,
el
 
I can't stop crying. :( Last night I confronted my guy on a website that was looking up local women naked photos that want to meet for hook up sex I found on his computer so I confronted Him on it and things turned physical. For the first time I know what it means when people say they were hit so hard they see stars. I need prayers. My emotions are crazy all over the place. He denied (lying of course) everything.
What makes a guy react in violence when he is caught? Please let the Lord lead your hearts on what to pray because I am so not even knowing what to ask you to pray about. I just know I need prayers. Thanks guys & gals.

Flee from this man, IF he or anyone on this post thinks he is a saved and santified Christian then you are blind, and in need of a huge wake up call!

Report him, he needs to be in jail, but most of all he needs to repent!!! He is on his way to destruction, and his god is his belly! and satan!

He will drag you down to the pit with him unless you run for your life, come to God broken, and He will protect you from this evil, BUT I dont know you or your heart, you must also do your part it you are in bondage to sin and the wordl!

This is the typical behavior of alot of professing Christians I am afraid, they are NOT Christians as I mentioned, and need a huge wake up call!


A Call to Repentance
Joel,2-12 “Now, therefore,” says the LORD,
“Turn to Me with all your heart,
With fasting, with weeping, and with mourning.”
13 So rend your heart, and not your garments;
Return to the LORD your God,
For He is gracious and merciful,
Slow to anger, and of great kindness;
And He relents from doing harm.
14 Who knows if He will turn and relent,
And leave a blessing behind Him—
Here is more strong proof what the lord requires of His creation to be reconciled to Himself, it’s very simple but made so complicated by the heaps and heaps of pastors and ministries who have the nerve to say mankind does NOT have to repent to be saved.
They come with a simple plan that was concocted by many reformed preachers and bible scholars, making the way to the cross more of a simple confession you are a sinner, then accepting the great substitution Jesus miraculously made for them, but they fail to give any proof that the word of God let alone the King of Kings taught this non sense!
Many will fight with all they have to preserve their man made doctrines including original sin, which then gives them many excuses to ignore the powerful verse above as well as many more strong warnings to repent, turn, come broken in heart before the mercy seat, and hope and pray God will grant pardon!
Now if this was being preached in the church system today, and well understood by the saved in sin defenders, then the mess Christianity is in today would not be so, instead, the word of God would become real, and powerful, converting the lost soul, once in love with sin, rebellion and the world, now cleansed and purged of all filthiness, and wickedness, ready to receive the implanted word of God!
But today these verses are totally ignored, and replaced with a sin message, undermined by many, many, reformed errors, where simple repentance is lost in a sea of original sin, imputation, substitution, OSAS etc, producing a church that was called poor, blind and naked by Jesus Himself!
2 Corinthians 6;17 The.refore
“Come out from among them
And be separate, says the Lord.
Do not touch what is unclean,
And I will receive you.”[d]
18 “I will be a Father to you,
And you shall be My sons and daughters,
Says the LORD Almighty.”[e]
Act 26:20 But to those first in Damascus, and Jerusalem, and to all the country of Judea, and to the nations, I made known the command to repent and to turn to God, doing works worthy of repentance.
Tommy 1-23-13
PS. We must come to Jesus on His terms, not mans, I know many are taught the opposite today, they either were indoctrinated into these teachings at an early age, and refuse to even search the scriptures, search what the early church taught, or dig deep to see just how far off the mark many liberal translations of the Bible are.
When the reformation came about, around the year 1500, many denominations were formed that took these errors and built on them, leading to what we have today! Many will profess anything different from what their beloved denominations teach is heresy, and a lie, especially those who cling to Calvinism, or any form of it.
This I understand, and accept, as God predicted this would happen, when the few remnant come with the truth. But it’s a bitter pill to swallow, when you see so many sincere people, young and old, so angry and upset when the truth is presented to them, and they attack the messenger.
To me this shows just how far off the mark they are in their minds, they love the lie, refuse to hear anything else except the born sinner, Jesus sub plan, made so famous by the likes of Billy Graham, Ed Young, and many more mega preachers, selling a gospel that is totally backwards from what the early church and Christ taught.
Are we full of pride and arrogant to say these things? Are we evil, uncaring, and full of hate when we confront the wall of deception accepted as truth today?
I guess I can also say this about the many who cling to the saved IN sin message, repeat after me crowd, who has every excuse why they can sin with impunity, then just confess, and then continue as a vile sinner in heart, where purity and separation is a pipe dream never to be accomplished in this life, even though the whole council of God is against them.
Dig deep as commanded, have some confidence in the Lord to lead you into truth, not some ministry or church pastor you support, who clings to these errors for whatever reason.
The gospel according to godliness is a TO DO gospel, which can only be received and understood in its form and context when the sinner wakes up and does this:
James 1-21-22;
21 So get rid of all uncleanness(repent) and the rampant outgrowth of wickedness, and in a humble (gentle, modest) spirit receive and welcome the Word which implanted and rooted [in your hearts] contains the power to save your souls.
22 But be doers of the Word [obey the message], and not merely listeners to it, betraying yourselves [into deception by reasoning contrary to the Truth].!
1, You repent first and foremost, see 2 Corinthians 7-10-11.
2, Then if the repentance is real, and from the heart, godly sorrow as described in 2 Corinthians, you then can receive the implanted word of God, and understand it as written by God.
3, Now you become a passionate doer of the word, obeying God from your heart, cleansed and purified, broken and willing to learn and grow more, and more in His great truth.














 
Abba Father please turn this situation around for good, as only You can Lord

[h=3]Numbers 6:24-26[/h]Amplified Bible (AMP)


[SUP]24 [/SUP]The Lord bless you and watch, guard, and keep you;

[SUP]25 [/SUP]The Lord make His face to shine upon and enlighten you and be gracious (kind, merciful, and giving favor) to you;

[SUP]26 [/SUP]The Lord lift up His [approving] countenance upon you and give you peace (tranquility of heart and life continually).
 
Bekah? How are you today and how is all?
Praying always for you and your man in Jesus's name.
You know I am with you always in Jesus.
Huge gentle hugs.

God bless
pickles
 
rebecca, as a sister in christ I understand how is it like, I happened to know about my ex that he still in contact with his ex-gf and also they we're engaged before, taken wedding pictures before. I wasn't even told about it before my relationship started. I was given abusive words everytime from him..until I feel so unloved by him, I decided to stop the relationship. I felt that since you are in this situation chances are, we shouldnt continue the relationship, since he do not respect you in any way going behind your back.

If he can go behind your back now, in future he'll do worst than that. As a sister in christ, I just want to advice you not to put yourself into a more heartbroken state.:( I pray that you'll find someone that Loves you as christ love His church.

hugs rebecca. You deserve better than this. prayed for you, for wisdom, comfort and peace.
 
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Hey everyone, Pickles gentle hugs back sista and thank you for your prayers. thank you cayosura for the words of wisdom and for the prayers you all have prayed for us. The Lord has brought peace back into this household and things are slowly coming around. I keep praying for my mate and know and believe that the Lord can save him. I honestly do not even know what to think right now about the future or what I'm going to do about it. I'm just going to pray and ask the Lord to lead me. Its all we can do. Love you guys.
 
THAT IS SOooooooo YEAH GOOD BEKAH, LOVE IS THE GREATEST. WE COULD DO ALL KINDS OF THINGS FOR THE LORD, BUT IF WE DON'T FORGIVE, THINGS JUST WILL NOT PAN OUT RIGHT. GOD WILL MOVE IN A SITUATION WHERE AND WHEN OUR HEART IS RIGHT BEFORE HIM. I HOPE THINGS REALLY DO WORK OUT FOR YOU AND HIM. GBU.
 
jkalyna thank you! I am just trusting the Lord and praying for his wisdom and his guidance and know that I will get both of I simply surrender this situation to Him and tell Him to move me if its his will that I am willing to follow him to the ends of the earth!!!
 
Ohhh sweet bekah...
I'm sorry I have not been around.
But you know you are in my thoughts and prayers :)
Love and blessings, Shekaniah
 
wow we have done some studying up on this medicine tom is taking and it REALLY affects the brain. We began looking for answers as to WHY he has been acting the way he has that is totally out of the norm for him and want to share with you all that if you ever break a bone we steer you away from Tramadol. It stops the brain from producing a much needed brain chemical. Please I would ask that you pray for Tom. After that episode on these pills he has decided he wants off of them NOW so he is trying to quit and my word I have never seen a body jerk and shake around like his is doing. And he is sooo cold and puking. Now that I know that these pills cause the violence in a person to come out in full force when they are provoked we now know why we had what happen happen. I told him last nite that if he ever and i mean ever laid a hand on me again our relationship ends at that moment and I am 100% dead serious. Thank You Rick for your love and concern, blessings brother.

 
I placed my hand upon your picture and prayed over your words, then noticed it looked like we were holding hands :) We've all got your hands here, Bekah, keep us looped and don't be afraid to ask!
 
hahaha rick you are so funny and delightful and I appreciate all that you pray for me. God bless brother. I really hope the Lord blesses you big for your caring heart. I appreciate your friendship <3