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Rochii

Rochii

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Hi everyone! I just wanted to share something that's worrying me. I'm 32 yo doctor, I'm single, and some time ago I started feeling the desire of finding someone to date, so I started praying to see God's will. Now at the hospital I started receiving attention from non christian doctors and I'm concerned I might fall in love with someone. I'm afraid I might be loosing direction.
Thank you!!
Blessings
 
TabinRivCA

TabinRivCA

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When the Bible advises not to be unequally yoked, it's for a good reason. My 2nd husband was an agnostic, a vet and not an evil guy but didn't want anything to do with the gospel. I was married to him for 18 yrs and remember there may be children involved seeing the tension going on. Thank God at the end he conceded and accepted Jesus and I'd do it all again, if it would save his soul, but would not advise anyone else to go through that.
When you are talking to the Drs just remember, spiritually they are in darkness and you are not. Get involved in volunteer work at a local church and join some singles groups at church. Don't settle for less than you deserve, good-looking or not,lol, beware and be smart. I pray God blesses you with His pick for you soon🙏💕
 
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Pardizzle

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Rochii said:
Hi everyone! I just wanted to share something that's worrying me. I'm 32 yo doctor, I'm single, and some time ago I started feeling the desire of finding someone to date, so I started praying to see God's will. Now at the hospital I started receiving attention from non christian doctors and I'm concerned I might fall in love with someone. I'm afraid I might be loosing direction.
Thank you!!
Blessings
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While you do need to be careful about getting involved with someone unequally yoked from you, it doesn't mean that you should steer clear of them. What I mean is, although it may not be fit for a relationship between the two of you, maybe God is bringing them into your life for another reason....to witness to them, to help them somehow, just to be nice to them??? OR maybe they can show/teach you something. God brings all kinds of people into our lives, for different reasons.
 
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Karlon

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Rochii said:
Hi everyone! I just wanted to share something that's worrying me. I'm 32 yo doctor, I'm single, and some time ago I started feeling the desire of finding someone to date, so I started praying to see God's will. Now at the hospital I started receiving attention from non christian doctors and I'm concerned I might fall in love with someone. I'm afraid I might be loosing direction.
Thank you!!
Blessings
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the 1st part is simple: if you are a born again Christian, NEVER DATE A NON BORN AGAIN CHRISTIAN~!!!!! why? because you will be unequally yoked as Jesus teaches. " ....what fellowship hath light with darkness, what fellowship hath a believer with an infidel....."! the Holy Spirit will lead you properly. ask Jesus where to look for a b.f. sometimes we can't see the wisdom in everything but Jesus always does. blessings to you.
 
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