Minerva,
Welcome to CC!
I hope you find a second home here!
It does hurt our hearts to see our children make mistakes.
My mama heart goes out to you!
I will defintly pray for your son...
but I will also pray that God gives you wisdom too.
There is a fine line between helping and enabling.
I pray that you have healthy boundries and tough love for him.
You might have read this somewhere already...
Feed a man a fish...you have fed him for a day.
Teach a man to fish...he can feed himself for a life time!
We need to teach out children to become independant.
And sometimes it is through watching them suffer a little.
When my kids got older, I would help them with the things
they truley needed.
But when it comes to extra's they had to work for it.
I hope this helps...Love in Jesus, Shekaniah