Why did you put the word abuse in quotations? That's exactly what it is. There's no mutual consent, it's one man forcing himself on a child.
And no, it would not be normal to want sex with a child.
I don't think it's normal to want to have sex with another man either but it doesn't really concern me because both parties are consenting with full knowledge of their actions.
I put the word abuse in quotations to quote you, now I realise it came out wrong (like an irony, but that`s not what I ment).
Pedophiles are not necessarily rapists; both pedophilia and homosexuality are deviant sexual behaviour. If a 12 year old child would give his consent to have sex with a pedophile, would that make it normal? No, and I saw that you also agreed that it isn`t and I`m glad you did.
Only because something is legal (zoophilia used to be legal in Germany, it is no more), does not mean it`s normal.